1. I don't know you and I didn't make any personal attack towards you or your play style. So please refrain from doing it to me. Thanks.
2. If you had read my post in it's entirety I was stating it from a 8 man raid perspective and not 4.
You kinda just stuck your foot in your mouth mate. If Healers are geared enough to solo Heal those turns, then that means by that point DPS should be geared enough to take down the content without "needing" DPS from Healers. I'm not saying Healer DPS is a bad thing. But with the way most people play a lot of people tunnel vision which makes things tricky. I don't trust a lot of people to know what they are doing in the first place. So I kinda set in emergency plans in case things go south, usually solo healing is done when content usually "has" echo on it. BUT with the exception of gear it is also possible for solo healing to occur and then in that case, by all means DPS away if you can sneak some in there.
Also keep in mind, a lot of people don't have that mindset of "Need to Heal and DPS." To force that on someone is kinda rude and I don't think it would blow over too well. But in my opinion I think Cleric Stance is just fine the way it is. I DPS/Heal myself, but there "are" times where I won't but that really depends on if I am comfortable with the party at that given time. I usually don't trust DPS as far as I can throw them and there's a lot of them.