Im not saying OP hasnt been doing pvp for ages, he/she might have.
But its quite annoying that pvp has been in this state forever, and no one gave a damn.

Suddenly now its got some hype behind it, everyone jumps on the hate wagon.
If someone loved pvp so much, why were they not doing it before the hype? The rewards have always been a mount and decent ilvl gear.

Believe it or not pvp queues are much better than they used to be at the moment (at least in my playtime).
People seem to want the mounts with little effort, compared to people who put the effort in before the pvp hype.

my advice is if you want to pvp, wait until friday/saturday night and/or when the frontlines has bonus light. Thats the only method I used.
If you queue for 2 hours on a weekday morning, then its your own choice, dont blame the community for being at work/school.
Take up a craft and make the wait times productive.