I was leveling my mnk in bray and after a very long wait, got placed in a party with a marauder, whm, and brd. After wiping after every mob up to the initial gate I said this isn't going to work. This was his first class and I taught him how he needs his war soul stone so he can get defiance to help him hold mobs. There's new people who might not have friends or an fc to guide them along in this game, and that's why we have people who aren't aware of their job quests or how important gear is related to dungeon level in this game. I'm happy to teach people as long as they are willing to listen. Sometimes you do just want to leave, but leaving isn't going to fix the long term problem. We voted to abandon and I'm assuming he went off to start his job quest afterwards.