Eternal Bond Ceremony Confusion

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It goes like this:

Only one of you is able to choose a date. So even if you didn't accept any of the dates but your partner did, now you have a blank invitation in your inventory.

If you don't agree with the date, your only option now is to reschedule, HOWEVER, that means not being able to choose any of the available dates in the current week and having to wait until NEXT friday morning to choose a new date.

If you are going to reschedule, then both of you have to drop your blank invitations and speak to the npc next week again to choose a new date. YOU CANNOT CHOOSE A NEW DATE FOR THE SAME WEEK YOU OR YOUR PARTNER ORIGINALLY PICKED.

It sux, but thats how it works. If you still have your blank invitations, then you are still scheduled for that original date. Otherwise, you don't have a reservation... although I'm very curious about your guests trying to enter the sanctum on the date and time written on their invitations even tho the wedding won't be held.