Learning to Play/Making Friends

[Werhusky]

Monks main stats = str. Or dex?

Monk/Dragoon STR Bard/Ninja use DEX
BLM/SMN INT WHM/SCH MND (though there some vit/piety builds for whm as well)
for tanks theres the usual STR or VIT decision
as SMN / SCH share arcanist as class can be tricky to put points but just try out both n in case respec as Keepers Hymn from GC is only 250 GC Seals now.