Abuse for being a new player, any solution?

[Peachy]

You can make a learning party in PF. I'm not saying someone has to, but that's another way you can learn the fight.

This is great advice, dont be shy! put up that pf, say you want help learning the fight, and that there is a sol tome bonus because you have never won. Youd be surprised how quick you can get players. Even if you dont have luck every time you are at least trying and not being insulted in the df.