So far i have not recieved any abuse for being new. The people on famfrit so far are a cool bunch. Almost everytime I enter a new main scenario dungeon there are them one or 2 people who have done it before and they are helpful and guide new players like me along the way. In terms of dieing i have only ever really died when the tank or the healer dies, then im next shortly after. I did die twice against titan, but the players were cool about it, we failed the first time but we pulled through the second only i died at the very end xD

Me personally, watching videos before going into a dungeon would spoil the fun and ruin that first time experience. I am sorry OP that you had a bad run through it happens to alot of us new players. Its all trail and error but some people just dont understand that.