Abuse for being a new player, any solution?

[Sapphic]

This is the problem right here. People expect that you'll be looking at guides or videos outside of the game before even doing the fight. I don't know how this became the norm, but this is nothing but horrible thinking. No gameplay, nor the people playing it, should not require looking up videos/guides to experience it. I've never done this, and I never will.

So you won't read a guide but you expect others to type into party chat a guide for you to read?

ok......