Man lol it makes me sad how this community is becoming more and more " unfriendly "
The general rule since they made ex primals is that
If you haven't had practice with the instance within the first few weeks then be prepared for a lot of wtf i don't even moments.
Doing things when they aren't hot gets u literally burned at the stake by ppl just cuz u chose to do it later.

You go into pf and make a learning party, ppl soon go " i can't see this happening" then leave after a few wipes causing a domino effect.
You go into df and ppl say the same thing and vote abandon after a few attempts.
How are you supposed to get 1st hand exp if you can't even get ppl to not quit.
This counts even for ls mates and fc buds, i'm 90% ppl won't stay for hours on end trying to get you / others a clear if there's nothing in return lol
It's just what it is i guess.