Abuse for being a new player, any solution?

[Conquerant]

So I try "Titan EX" for the first time... I was a tank. I got hit by an attack and fell to my death. Then the main tank immediately started to insult me and asked me to leave. I did a "ready check" but the main tank refused to click ready and continued to insult me instead. He didn't want to try even a second time, claiming that it was a waste of time because I sucked too much, etc... Then they vote-kicked me. This is depressing.

I mean, it was a mistake. I am not used to all Titan's attacks. But at least I am expecting the party to want to try a few times before giving up. Also I would be better each time. The guy just insulted me instead.

[Reimia]

Did you just post this on Gfaqs too? /curious

[Spoekes]

Conquerant, sadly, this will not be your last encounter with idiots of this kind, if you keep on DFing Ex Primals.
For reasons I don't understand, some players seem to expect everybody has clear experience and frist try the duty.

Don't let it get to you.

[Ruri]

There will always be people like this, all you can do it stick with the people who are willing to try and kick the jerks. It might take awhile but you make good friends this way who want to clear content together with you without being insulting. If you're using DF though then your screwed since its cross-server unless you get lucky and find people on the same server. I would start making PF parties to see if people can help you.

[MXMoondoggie]

This sums up EX Primals on DF. If people don't clear first try then it degenerates into arguments and finger pointing. Don't think I've done a DF group that lasted longer than 2 tries before people started screaming or rage quitting. You can always try setting up a learning party in the PF there are others who will want to learn and work on the instance though sometimes those can degenerate into the same thing. I honestly don't know why people expect easy clears in DF though the experience level is random because it's a random party matcher. There is nothing you check to say "Put me with people who have finished this 100 times or more and are farming it like me"

[Able]

One instance of abuse, especially in DF, isn't indicative of a larger problem regarding new player abuse. It's something you will occasionally encounter in every mmo you play.

The solution is to ignore the random idiots you don't even know. When people insult me in instances, I completely ignore them. Not a single response in chat. If it is obvious that we're not going to clear the content, I vote abandon or just leave.

[Jican]

Sorry to say, but you can expect this all around, no matter what you do. If someone is vocal enough, and feels they can do the job you are better, they will always resort to name calling. Just the other day I was called a bad blm because I used Blizzard 2 vs 18 mobs at once over a single target bliz 3 simply because the other guy feels he can do blm better than me. There will always, and I do mean ALWAYS be those people in a game that's packed with thousand of other people that turn out to be complete jerks. Find a pack of friends and roll with them for content, that's your safest bet!

[FranSeara]

Using DF for any fight is traininng grounds. How else can you learn the fight? Keep using DF for All fight in this game OP its allowed and its part of the system. Once you have a good understanding of the fight try a PF with the understanding that you're just looking for a clear on said fight. DF is for EVERYONE to use and enjoy.

[Noahlimits]

Using DF for any fight is traininng grounds. How else can you learn the fight?

You can make a learning party in PF. I'm not saying someone has to, but that's another way you can learn the fight.

[technole]

You can make a learning party in PF. I'm not saying someone has to, but that's another way you can learn the fight.

More people should do this anyway, ensures same party goals versus DF. Plus you won't get many wipes until action is taken on EX primals.