Abuse for being a new player, any solution?

[ErnestoGiovanni]

So I get into df for my light farming and get into An Ifrit HM, we wipe at hellfire since dps died from running in front of ifrit, but we didn't really. There were two nails I used PoM and killed one hit medica 2 regen on me and healer and tank then swift cast stoneskin during the animation, and I lived with LB3. Every new person was picking on each other and told me to just die. I said no LB3 and get everyone else up. I start calling out the moves and people are still getting killed. I end up being the. Last one standing and ifrit cant kill me as long as I have mp. I said I will show you the mechanics so just watch the plumes and what not. EVERY PERSON started to chew me out for not just wiping. I said no, if you keep dying to the same things, then I will show you how it works. They kicked me. Do its not a new thing its a people thing.

[gruntboy117]

So far i have not recieved any abuse for being new. The people on famfrit so far are a cool bunch. Almost everytime I enter a new main scenario dungeon there are them one or 2 people who have done it before and they are helpful and guide new players like me along the way. In terms of dieing i have only ever really died when the tank or the healer dies, then im next shortly after. I did die twice against titan, but the players were cool about it, we failed the first time but we pulled through the second only i died at the very end xD

Me personally, watching videos before going into a dungeon would spoil the fun and ruin that first time experience. I am sorry OP that you had a bad run through it happens to alot of us new players. Its all trail and error but some people just dont understand that.

[PetiteMalFleur]

I'm not sure why people insist df should be for learning. It's totally ineffective as groups wipe once, give up and people drop. People are queuing with different goals and to expect a group of random people from df to teach a fight, over asking in pf people to join and teach, is unreasonable. In pf you have more opportunities to use voip and people who join expecting to teach tend to be more patient.

OP, don't expect to learn anything from a df group. They are not obligated to teach you the fight. Have your free company help you and use pf to fill in the empty spots. Even if you don't clear you will get way more out of it than from df making a future clear more attainable.

[Squeeb]

They need to add elitist for a reason to kick