My Significant Other Changed Her Race... and I Don't Like It.

[KodiHivaer]

My wife was a very beautiful elezen woman, but recently she's been a little distrusting of me because I tend to gaze at miqo'te (I can't help that most gear that I want happens to be on miqo'te), or when they flirt with me and I playfully retort to their advances (I tend to just ignore them.)

Today she was helping me with alexandrite maps, and due to me being on a PS3 and her on (As she says) "PC MASTER RACE", I load slower than her, so I was highly upset when I saw this:

This was her before the change:


and then this happened:




^That wasn't my wife and I urged her to get a fantasia to change back.
She told me "No, it seems you prefer your women with fuzzy ears and a tail, since they seem so aesthetically pleasing to you, I decided to change just for your tastes"

TL;DR:
My wife changed her race because she feels I prefer miqo'te over what she was before :/

How do I coax her to change back?

[Eijii]

Turn into a Roe... see how she likes it....

[Cutie_McSnuggles]

Turn into a Roe... see how she likes it....

And what if she does like it?

[KodiHivaer]

And what if she does like it?

I second this.

[Evergrey]

Start watching Elezen women and maybe history will repeat itself... But the other way around... You know what I mean. -_-'

[HeroSamson]

One thing I learned man.

You have to speak up when girls flirt and tell them that you are not interested have respect for the person that is with you and stop looking at other girls, if you are interested in her you gotta pay no mind to the others.
If you keep at it, all you will do is end up fighting even splitting up.

Not sure if you are in long distance relationship or game only relationship.

If its not serious and you are never going to meet then there is no room for jealousy.

If you are actually a couple in Real life and live near each other, then don't let game get in the middle of your relationship.

[Ardent_Dawn]

Well, I think she is beautiful. Doesn't help your cause much, but hey! I suggest that you learn to love what -she- loves, because ultimately it is her choice to be happy and content with the choices she has made. However, if she is doing this just to spite you... well, hang in there. It'll be a ride.

[KodiHivaer]

One thing I learned man.

You have to speak up when girls flirt and tell them that you are not interested have respect for the person that is with you and stop looking at other girls, if you are interested in her you gotta pay no mind to the others.
If you keep at it, all you will do is end up fighting even splitting up.

Not sure if you are in long distance relationship or game only relationship.

If its not serious and you are never going to meet then there is no room for jealousy.

If you are actually a couple in Real life and live near each other, then don't let game get in the middle of your relationship.

We're a couple irl and ig, our relationship almost failed once before, but it wasn't any fault of mine (I think).
She does tend to get jealous a bit, but I'm not sure how to remedy that.

Well, I think she is beautiful. Doesn't help your cause much, but hey! I suggest that you learn to love what -she- loves, because ultimately it is her choice to be happy and content with the choices she has made. However, if she is doing this just to spite you... well, hang in there. It'll be a ride.

I believe she did it to spite me (As she dislikes miqo'te) I guess I only compacted the issue by paying more attention to them than her in the end, and I guess she's trying to prove a point to me.

[HeroSamson]

We're a couple irl and ig, our relationship almost failed once before, but it wasn't any fault of mine (I think).
She does tend to get jealous a bit, but I'm not sure how to remedy that.

Yeah its good to be jealousy so she probably loves you a lot and wants you to look at her only probably why she changed.

Just have to promise her you aren't interested in other girls on here that she has nothing to worry about.

Jealousy happens its normal when someone loves someone and doesn't wanna lose them.

[Ardent_Dawn]

We're a couple irl and ig, our relationship almost failed once before, but it wasn't any fault of mine (I think).
She does tend to get jealous a bit, but I'm not sure how to remedy that.



I believe she did it to spite me (As she dislikes miqo'te) I guess I only compacted the issue by paying more attention to them than her in the end, and I guess she's trying to prove a point to me.

Relationships are a tricky thing to give advice on, because everyone ends up reacting differently. One thing always stands the test of time, though: communication. Good luck, friend.