My wife was a very beautiful elezen woman, but recently she's been a little distrusting of me because I tend to gaze at miqo'te (I can't help that most gear that I want happens to be on miqo'te), or when they flirt with me and I playfully retort to their advances (I tend to just ignore them.)

Today she was helping me with alexandrite maps, and due to me being on a PS3 and her on (As she says) "PC MASTER RACE", I load slower than her, so I was highly upset when I saw this:

This was her before the change:


and then this happened:




^That wasn't my wife and I urged her to get a fantasia to change back.
She told me "No, it seems you prefer your women with fuzzy ears and a tail, since they seem so aesthetically pleasing to you, I decided to change just for your tastes"

TL;DR:
My wife changed her race because she feels I prefer miqo'te over what she was before :/

How do I coax her to change back?