I love the people on my server. It's very rare that I find an unfriendly group in PF. I always seem to find a fun party even on FATE grinds. Admittedly sometimes DF can be quiet but that's the nature of the beast as people have to spam for grinds but I always try and start a bit of a chat - goes a long way.
I started playing the game as a big final fantasy fan, I stay because of the community.