To op did you ever try asking them to slow down so you can xp? Or at least say something of that nature at start of run?
Yes, after the Ello's it was the first thing I asked. @5 minutes in I got kicked. (Has happened more then once.)

I have leveled almost every job to 50 now. I have been playing for over a year, and I have leveled more then 1 character. I know how things on here work. As I've seen it all come and go. I myself prefer to use dungeons to level. As dungeons actually teach you your job. Fates and Leve's do not. That's why when you get into a 50 roulette and your tank can't hold hate. It's because all they did was Leve's and Fates, and don't know how to hold hate.

All I'm asking is that something be done. That way speed runners and exp'ers don't cross paths. As for roulettes... Give and extra tomb bonus for killing all mobs. Or like I said. Make a exp option button on the DF page. But don't group item hunters in with exp'ers. It's not good.