I have met many new people that complain about this a lot. And it's not a good way to get people to stick around on your game if they feel they're just wasting there time getting screwed out of a exp run that is meant to be fun and help them learn how to play.

And frankly I see it as nothing more then bullying those people. If 3 people are in a dungeon for a item hunt / speed run. and the 4th is there for exp. And they kick that 4th person. Yes that is bullying.

Like I said I have relic. I've played almost every job now to 50. But when I go into a dungeon under 50 I'm respectful to others. And if I'm there alone for a item. Even if one or two others are also. If there is 1 person there for exp. As tank I will pull everything. It's called respect. Something a lot of people now a days don't have. Well that and common sense.