Actually a bit surprised by a lot of the replies in here. A lot of you say that "well I'll never see them again so why talk to them" thats pretty bad in my opinion. I wonder how old some of the people are that say this, maybe I'm too old fashion, maybe this social game really isn't. Maybe it is all a bunch of mindless zombies that forgot why they started playing in the first place, or why they still play, like being programmed for one linear function only. I understand why the DF is what it is, most no one cares about anything but themselves in this social game. Well I'll keep at my futile attempt at trying to talk to people.