Not to sound like a bad guy I just have a question.

Did you both used to Date on the game? I would think it would take much more than being called a flamer to set someone off like this.

I used to play FFXI and seen this behavior when, a girl used another guy for items, Gil and promised stuff giving information about real life stuff but not too much only enough to get trust, then once they ran out of Gil and became boring they left the person for another on the game and the first person they met they gave information to flips out and shouts and goes nuts because they are hurt and believed they had something.

I am not saying that's the reason with you, though I usually look at the whole picture not just one side, I am not trying to be a bad guy just wondering.