It's not a matter of not being able to handle it, it's tanks that don't have the gear and/or skill who try to speed run EX dungeons when they have no business doing so, especially when one or both DPS slots are melee. It certainly doesn't help when emnity isn't controlled well enough that DPSs start to drop take hits and drop, tempers will flair, and people will rage quit.

Maybe I've just had bad luck lately but I've seen this happen far too often the past few weeks.