they should force people to either stick together for a certain amoutn of time or if they want the divorce what they paid for is gone lost and what they got be removed from them...that would make them think twice.

I mean as long as is stated as such everybody takes their own responsability.....frankly,OP, you put youself in this position, I dont feel sympathetic towards you not even for a bit.

You wanted it ..you got it..good luck

Sorry this is just what shall I say? ridiculous

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