I got vote kicked for the first time today (or, how do I keep nin from taking aggro?)

[Yukiko]

Can you believe the first time I marked a mob for a party was two days ago? I hope I can continue learning.

If you feel confident enough with your skills and markings (when you found your path)...
Try to play a bit with the ingame macros! It will help to increase speed and marking things will make more fun...