@OP - Just stay man, it takes time and patience for most things. I have a full time+ job as well (+ = overtime) single father and all, and I play when I can and still enjoy the hell out of it. When it's a long F.A.T.E. I usually try to do something else in RL put the volume way up, and when it goes I'm there.

Although my post is burried, I hope you have a chance to read this and re-think about leaving the game. Relic quest is exactly what it is, a lengthy process, just try to chip-away at it little by little. If it is a financial issue then I can understand, but if your going to spend money on a new game everymonth, or even every other month, remember this is still cheaper than that!

I hope to see you around on lodestone in the future but either way Happy Adventuring.

-Tari