Increase Server Capacity

[kyuven]

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Then you need to keep in mind that either anyone new will have to jump through hoops to join you, or you and your friends need to cut ties and move.
This isn't something SE can solve with a magic wand or a new system. They've mentioned they're reworking the servers for 3.0, but we still have no idea how this will affect the server loads.
This is one of the trade-offs you have for being on one of the most populated servers the game offers.
Also there's the fun aspect that if SE DID increase the "server capacity" balmung would STILL fill up and the problem would STILL exist because it's as popular as it is.