So sorry about the post early. I found out that I actually had my front speakers configured to be the backs, so when I updated the sound drivers they didnt work at all. I noticed when I plug them in the same port the sound in Realtek would ask for it to be back speakers. So when I plugged them into the other green port, I was asked if these were the front speakers, then finally they worked.

I just reformatted to be honest, then i installed the latest from their website and it works fine. Im reinstalling FFXIV, i doubt the problem will occur again. Will get you updated, once again got this page bookmarked and will come back with results (even if they are good). So people have this for future references.

Kinda makes me wonder if because my front speakers were plugging into the back ports on my motherboard, maybe thats why it was crashing? Who knows, that was one big thing that was changed, i remember plugging them in one day and forgot which go where, but they worked so i didnt bother to check if the port matter, etc.