Fact of the matter is that the ability is annoying and serves no purpose other than frustration. You aren't going to die, you aren't more likely to die, and all that's going to happen is you're going to miss a FATE you wanna do and piss you off just that much more. It's grind for the sake of grind. I know people hate it when WoW is mentioned, but a similar ability was in place for a long time until the devs removed it. They agreed how pointless the ability was when mobs casted it.