Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[DJaySaint]

It's been a while since I posted here, so I figured I would give it a try again.

Before I get started, I just wanted to make it clear I'm mostly looking for a friend right now. I'm not looking to instantly jump in a marriage, if I do get married at all. It would be nice to get to that point eventually, but right now I just want to meet a good friend. I am also not looking for a romantic relationship. I just want a partner in crime. It will be a long process to get to know someone, and you will not win me over instantly. After dealing with many bad people and failed relationships of all kinds, I am skeptical and take a while to trust someone and really open up. All I ask is for is respect, patience, and acceptance.

Server: Sargatanas (Aether data center). I also have a fully leveled alt on Hyperion (Primal data center) so through Party Finder I can meet anyone on any server in the NA region to do things.

Willing to transfer?: Probably not. I have already transferred twice and now I currently have a large house in Shirogane so... unless I REALLY like you, the likelihood of me moving is slim to none. Sorry. I am willing to do things cross server through party finder to get to know you, and make an alt to visit you. Bonus points if you want to do the same and visit me. Come see my house!

Personal Interests: Final Fantasy and games obviously. I like adventure, RPG, strategy, action, etc. All kinds. I also enjoy reading, cooking, the occasional show, music, writing, artsy things, and too many others to really list here. It will come out in conversation eventually.

Play schedule: Right now it's pretty flexible, but generally evenings EST. I am usually on by 5 p.m. EST and can be on as late as 2 a.m. EST (or later if I can't sleep). I may be on earlier or later, but 5-2 are the most reliable hours to find me.

What kind of gamer are you: I used to be pretty hardcore, but I've become more relaxed and casual and like to try to enjoy the game experience, exploration, and story now. So midcore-ish? I still like to challenge and push myself to be as good as I can possibly be, but I enjoy exploring and story and doing side things.

Character Gender: Female

Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? No. I don't care what you are in game whatsoever. I only care about the person. Being that I'm mostly just looking for a friend, I don't care what you are at all. Anything more? I would prefer female because I generally get along with females better.

Character Race: Hyur Midlander. I have a female Miqo'te alt on Hyperion as well.

Preferred Race: Anything but Lala really. If I'm to be honest I'm not really fond of Au Ra either, but that's not a deal breaker. I don't care what someone plays. I will either like you for you, or I won't. Race has nothing to do with it. I will not, however, marry a Lala under any circumstances. Sorry. They are adorable, but do not fit my personal taste for marriage. I'll be best friends with one and give hugs and snuggles though! For what I personally like though, Miqo'te or Hyur Midlander. Female Miqo'te animations often mirror and fit Midlander perfectly and they look adorable together. Again, it doesn't matter what race or gender your character is though. I only care about who you are.

Main job?: Red Mage. I've played it since XI and picked it up immediately in Stormblood. I also play Paladin, White Mage, and Black Mage. I can play everything, but those are what I play the most.

Dislikes: Lies. I know this is common to put down and has been overstated, but there is more to it than that. I don't like being led on. I don't like being told I'm special or I mean a lot to you one day, and then the next you treat me like garbage. If you say something, commit to it. Otherwise don't say it. That's really what bothers me the most. I also don't like when someone goes hard to start, then burns out quickly and becomes disinterested. Spare us both the time if you're not in it for the long term, then look elsewhere because I'm not looking for temporary and disposable friends.

Goals for the game: I recently got a mansion in Shirogane, so that was one of my bigger goals for the game. Eventually finish all jobs to 70 (nearly there), get all primal mounts, and just relax I guess. I do savage raids and like getting gear for end game. Other than that? Just have fun.

Goals for the marriage union: I just want a good and close friend to talk with and play together. Someone I can do anything and everything with... a partner in crime if you will. I'm not really a quantity person. I make very few close friendships, and usually stick with them. I want that special partner I can share everything with. I do have a mansion in Shirogane so I would like to share that with someone. We could redecorate it together!

Etc: As I said before I'm not looking to get married right away. It will take a while before I even get to that point. I'm mostly looking for a good friend and someone reliable to do things with. I'm tired of playing alone and want someone there to experience the game with. If we eventually get married? Great. But please don't contact me thinking it's going to be a quickie and a romantic relationship is going to be involved. I'm not fast, and I'm not easy. If that is what you are looking for, keep looking because you won't find it here.

I also have a fully leveled and geared female Miqo'te alt on Hyperion as well, but I'm not on her much and that is not the character I will focus on. I am saying this because I am tired of people messaging me and going "can you change to a cat girl for me? I will buy you a fantasia!" and the answer is NO. I will not change for you. I already have a Miqo'te alt I play, and if you can't accept what I play and expect me to change to fulfill your short term fantasies, you'll be disappointed because I don't care. If you're really that hard on for cat girls go to Rule 34, Pornhub, or visit any town or area in the game. You can't go 5 steps without running in to a cat girl. They are a dime a dozen, and I will not change myself for someone with a cat girl fetish. Sorry.

I really am easy to get along with and honestly don't ask for much. I don't want free stuff, money, or anything. I just want companionship. When I am someone's friend, I take that very seriously and am with them no matter what. I don't bail when things get hard, and I won't abandon someone. I will go to hell and back with you. I only ever ask for the same courtesies in return. Basically, just give me the same effort I give you. I am a very caring and giving person. I just don't like being taken advantage of and unfortunately that has happened way too often. I don't strive to just be a friend. I strive to be the best friend you ever had.

The best way to reach me is in game. I would leave my Discord but I've had bad luck with that in the past and I have friend requests disabled (due to harassment) so if you really want to talk there, please message me in game or leave your Discord tag here and I will add you. I realize this may put people off and I apologize, but I just don't want to deal with 30 friend requests a day by people mostly looking to ERP or some form of instant gratification that clearly hasn't read a single word I wrote... or someone looking to give me unsolicited nudes and then beg me for some in return. If you made it this far and decide to reach out, thank you, and I look forward to meeting you soon. I am worth the "trouble", I promise. If not, thank you for your time anyway and good luck in your search.

[Yenyen]

Quiet an interesting topic, I hope somepeople have made some friends ^^, On topic don't suppose people have any story's to share from this (positive 1s).

[AliceTheLamb]

Repost but fleshed out now that I know a bit more about how the forums work.

Server: Diabolos
Willing to transfer? No, sorry. I'm too attached to my FC and the friends I have made throughout my time here.
Personal Interests: Anything that really makes me think. Brain teasers, puzzles, the like. I also like to write, although I don't do it very much at the moment.
Play schedule: Anywhere between mid/late morning and mid/late evening, depending on what I happen to be working that day. Very likely to be mostly towards the afternoons and evening for the next several months, as I work the opening shift quite a lot during that timeframe.
What kind of gamer are you: I'm casually hardcore. I make lofty goals for myself and go about achieving them over time without really worrying about it. I like the social aspect of FFXIV the most, but I'm also content with just spending a bunch of time gathering and crafting in peace for a few hours on occasion.
Character Gender: Female
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? I am biromantic and bisexual, so any combination is fine with me.
Character Race: Mi'qote
Preferred Race: Male Mi'qotes are perfect, but fair warning... I will stare a lot. Anything else is fair game as well except for Lalafells. Lalafells are still welcome as friends, though!
Main class?: Astrologian > Samurai > Summoner
Dislikes: Dishonesty and tiptoeing. You're not going to offend me unless you're either being malicious or blatantly disrespectful.
Goals for the game: To experience as much of it as I can.
Goals for the marriage union: I simply want someone to go through the game with and help maintain my motivation to improve within it. For the ceremony itself, I prefer splitting the bill, but I'm happy to pay for both halves if a transfer is involved.
Etc: Hello, I am Alyssa, a 24-year old transgendered female. I haven't been the biggest fan of the MMO genre (as they usually struggle to catch my attention), but FFXIV managed to grip me quickly and make it easy for me to get into. The community has done a great job in leaving a good impression within me when I initially started playing back in May, so I try to pay the favor on whenever I can.

I like the large variety of content within the game, but it's the social aspect that keeps me around most of all. While I am looking for an eternal bonding opportunity, I am still happy to add anyone who would just like some more friends around. To those who are wanting to eternally bond, keep in mind that I want to take my time to make sure that I click with my partner before going through with it.

IGN: Alyssa Branson
Discord: I will have to add you, my discordID will not show up either on the forums or in game.

Special note, I'm looking for both a longer-term friend to bond with (and subsequently go through duties, maps, just talk to, etc.) as well as more friends to donate my healer queue to also go through duties, maps, just talk to, etc.. If we bond and end up clicking well enough, there's a possibility of it becoming a real relationship.
I am not looking to ERP.

[Ntol]

On topic don't suppose people have any story's to share from this (positive 1s).

Well, not exactly from this thread but its Gayorzea Discord channel counterpart. In fact I spent months reposting my ad here on a weekly basis with little to no result but on the other thread I met just the right person after a couple of days. Well, it was me who approached him from his ad, but it worked like a charm nonetheless.
We play everyday and after almost two months we bonded this weekend. Despite me already having someone IRL I find him to be the kindest person and an awesome friend. In fact I was ready to quit the game shortly before meeting him, but now I cant imagine myself playing another game.

So what I mean is never give up, just like my story I read some success stories on this thread, Im sure there´s another player out there for everyone, no matter what you are looking for. Best of luck for everyone.

[Canopia]

Quiet an interesting topic, I hope somepeople have made some friends ^^, On topic don't suppose people have any story's to share from this (positive 1s).

nope nothing, havent even made a friend... got a friend request but havent spoken to them yet. then again, most people seem to be a bit 'racist' against lalafells.

[Sesera]

nope nothing, havent even made a friend... got a friend request but havent spoken to them yet. then again, most people seem to be a bit 'racist' against lalafells.

Tiny races have always been some kind of outcast. Gnome in WoW had their hard time too for exemple. Also since we look like a 12 years old girl, I can see why people might prefer not to marry a lala.

[Hasrat]

Tiny races have always been some kind of outcast. Gnome in WoW had their hard time too for exemple. Also since we look like a 12 years old girl, I can see why people might prefer not to marry a lala.

Well you don't have to make it weird for those of us that are ok with the idea. =p

[Yenyen]

nope nothing, havent even made a friend... got a friend request but havent spoken to them yet. then again, most people seem to be a bit 'racist' against lalafells.

(my replay dissapeared for some reason o-o)
Lala's are cute xD /pet,
it's just nice to read love and friendship story's, there seems to be abit too many servers for my liking, everybody's spread so far and wide.
I'd seek out everybody for friendship who were looking but I don't have a character for every server >_<

[Yenyen]

Just a heads up to people adding me on discord: please note that at this moment in time I'm only really looking for UK based players to friend/EB with on the servers I'm on.

Don't suppose you have a general idea which server a lot of UK reside ;o

[Sesera]

Don't suppose you have a general idea which server a lot of UK reside ;o

I'd say you have better chances to find them in servers from the Chaos Data Center.