Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[KremlinDusk]

This thread is turning into a game of double-dutch. Just waiting on the sidelines to see a good time to jump in.

On topic though, the thread is kind of derailing a little bit and drowning out some applications, so lets be mindful of those still trying.

Yeah, apparently this is no longer the welcoming thread it used to be.

Edit:Please disregard this.

[KitingGenbu]

Yeah, apparently this is no longer the welcoming thread it used to be.

I do not think people were attacking you. It doesn't seem to be uncommon for people to encounter some conflict and want to discuss it with others on here (which it seems to be more frequent this month), so don't take what people are saying personally. Just do you and stay positive. Most people that have had success in the past seemed to have given the same advice. Also don't forget to be social in game since you never know what might come from that. Good luck to you and to others still trying.

People posting contact information to chat outside of the game should also be mindful that any person on the internet can see it, not just those subbed, so trolling it honestly to be expected since its the internet after all.

[Vyralia]

I feel like some of the replies have been an attack against my post.

KremlinDusk, the conversation was not meant to be an attack on your post. If you follow the thread for a while, you'll see a lot of guys who play female characters say that they are only interested in females who play female characters. You clearly stated that you are not interested in guys and asked people to be respectful of that. I can understand that. Your post was polite, but the conversation was more towards those who more demand that it be a female player and female character. They give off that "omg i want bewbies" vibe. Yours doesn't. Please don't feel like anyone is attacking you. I am certainly not.

[Lokier]

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Apologise for upsetting you but my comment was sarcasm and not aimed at you. I was talking to the other poster and didn't read whatever it was you previously said. I don't know if they were referring to you so don't take what I've said as anything directed at you and w/e it is you want from your marriage.

[KremlinDusk]

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Ahh - Then I apologise for jumping to conclusions, there. I just saw all of that out of nowhere, out of my own fault for not looking before 625 when I had posted. It just took me a little by surprise. I also too feel really uneasy around the "omg i need a sexy ass to look at not some fat roe butt, i'm not gay" stupidity. It gives people who feel more comfortable in game a really bad name for playing opposites.Thank you for explaining

[JumperX]

@KremlinDusk I thought they, Vyralia and lokier, were talking about more about guys playing females wanting and in a way "demanding" the counter part female player playing just female character. I think your post is fine. you said you like to play with a female player nothing about they playing just female character. I mean you are already playing your character as you like why make other player play what they don't like. Again, it didn't sound anything like that, but just mentioning because some guys do demand and ask girls do that while they are doing the opposite. I think it is appropriate from a guy asking a girl to play as a female IF they play as one too. hem asking a female player to do the same.

@ Vyralia "...before they know anything about you, much less if you're male or female IRL (it's funny when they do this sometimes and you tell them you're a guy, and then suddenly you're the one who's gay.." I was talking more in general and in case you found a female player like that then don't let it get to you. I was not referring to you like YOU!!! heh (my bad o7)

[Suki-]

So much miscommunication x3

[KremlinDusk]

Posts keep getting knocked back :c

We should repost. ^^ I'll edit this post here.

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Server: Moogle
Willing to transfer? A small possibility. idk, most likely not.
Personal Interests: Science, Science-fiction tv and books, languages, looong conversations, etc.
Play schedule: I'm from the UK so.. server time. I'm usually on a lot during the weekend, and after 5/6pm server time weekdays.
What kind of gamer are you: I'd say hardcore. I love raiding, but I'll also spend a bit of time crafting and messing around in housing. I can stay there for hours.
Character Gender: Female. (I'm a male irl, but I really don't associate with that much.)
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? I don't really get along with guys.. so please respect that.
Character Race: Miqo'te, but I switch between Miqo'te and Au Ra a lot, depending on my mood.
Preferred Race: Miqo'te and Au Ra.
Main class?: White Mage.
Dislikes: Lalafell.
Goals for the game: Raid lots, eradicate XIV of Lalafellin and do lots of Triple Triad.
Goals for the marriage union:Someone I can talk to. Not someone who's marrying out of cuteness of the whole thing but someone to spend time with ingame and actually make a friend. I do have a platinum, so it would be nice to know someone who'd want that type of marriage also. The cheap and free marriage options are just.. too cheesy for me.
Etc: This is Kremlin:

[Mugiawara]

Certainly seems like it. Or they're searching for more of a romance vibe than they're willing to let on...

I kind of wish there were a thread that was just for making friends rather than "partners", I'm not really interested in marriage but I'd like to find other girls to play with.

I used this thread originally for making friends in Balmung, but people who put
"Girl only please" are obviously looking for someone for more.
It's just as of late, there's been a lot of bad exp's so...
I don't even care for the marriage part, I just want friends to talk and do stuff with. ; - ;

[Lunaxia]

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My post wasn't aimed at anyone, just commenting on a slightly hypocritical trend I've seen for several pages. It's a little frustrating.

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Exactly. ;-; It's a shame girls who have come here looking for friendship have had to go through that.

I feel like even if it's specified as strictly platonic, for some people, getting married makes them think there's still a possibility of romance. Someone should start a new thread: Friend Hookup!