Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[aayjaay]

Server: Faerie
Willing to transfer? uhm maybe.
Personal Interests: Casual gaming, hanging out with friends, music, and sports.
Play schedule: Pretty much every day of the week after 9 p.m.
What kind of gamer are you: Casual gamer just looking for fun.
Character Gender: Male (also IRL)
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? yes
Character Race: Hyur
Preferred Race: No preference at all
Main class?: Summoner
Dislikes: Just rudeness and short conversationalists.
Goals for the game: Just to have fun and take everything slowly.
Goals for the marriage union: To have someone to play the game with and progress together.
Etc: Just want someone to enjoy the game with!

[D-wade]

Anyone on coeurl? ^.^
Server: Coeurl
Willing to transfer: Maybe
Personal interests: Sports, anime, gaming, music
Play schedule: Usually evenings MDT
What kind of gamer are you: Average not hardcore into raiding, quiete solo type of player
Character gender: Male and irl as well
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same as their character? Not really
Character race: Hyur midlander (may change possibly)
Preferred race: Miqo'te, Au ra, lala, Hyur midlander
Main class: Paladin
Dislikes: Rude people, rage quitters
Goals for the game: Getting gear, farming for mounts, eventually finishing all the raids and dungeons
Goals for the marriage: It'd be nice to spend some time with someone and help each other out and just enjoy the game together. Plus that mount looks pretty awesome

[Hamtaro788]

Still looking

Server:Sargatanas
Willing to transfer? Yes
Personal Interests: Sports, gaming, traveling
Play schedule: Anytime accept for Mon, tue, and wed (since i work overnights i dont get on because of my long hrs but i do get on at times to chat)
What kind of gamer are you: Hardcore at times
Character Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Make sense to be who you really are not something your not but would prefer a female
Character Race: Male Hyur
Preferred Race: Anything but Lafells
Main class?: Ninja
Dislikes: Disrespectful people
Goals for the game: I'm now trying to get back into playing again so no goals yet
Goals for the marriage union: Just looking for a close friend to be around and help each other out on goals and goof around.

[PotatoGirl]

I don't know if I should repost mine or not, the person I was potentially partnering too seems to have gone MiA right after I sold the house I had on my server and transferred. :l

Be careful I guess? Even if someone seems real friendly and nice, things can still go poorly. I'm giving them at least another day, but this is day 2 with them not replying to anything. Yeah, two days isn't much? But it kinda feels like it is to me when they were more than talkative prior to all this and kept saying how I need to transfer so we can do this and that and it'll be fun blah blah blah.

tl;dr its possible for things to be too good to be true.

[KitingGenbu]

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That's unfortunate that you are not getting the results that you desire; however, moving and such should be done for yourself and not someone else. If they are not willing to transfer to you, chances are its not what you would want anyway. Good luck on future looking if the person continues to be MIA.

[Alysanne]

tl;dr its possible for things to be too good to be true.

Well I'll tell ya my own embarrassing stories so you don't feel like the only one.

First person I thought was going to play with me I made a full set of eikon armor back when it was the new hotness and fully melded it. Then they completely ignored me and I just let it go, ended up giving it to a new player who just hit 60 on monk, but they really didn't understand how good what I gave them was so it was a little unfulfilling.

Next time around I gave up a medium house (trashed it, didn't sell it) and transferred and it quickly turned south.

Sooo now I'm about 50 million gil poorer and still not much wiser. I never reposed either, I just view the thread out of habit at this point.

Im a little more sore about the house than anything else, I can't buy a new one on my server as there are none.

[Hamtaro788]

I don't know if I should repost mine or not, the person I was potentially partnering too seems to have gone MiA right after I sold the house I had on my server and transferred. :l

Be careful I guess? Even if someone seems real friendly and nice, things can still go poorly. I'm giving them at least another day, but this is day 2 with them not replying to anything. Yeah, two days isn't much? But it kinda feels like it is to me when they were more than talkative prior to all this and kept saying how I need to transfer so we can do this and that and it'll be fun blah blah blah.

tl;dr its possible for things to be too good to be true.

indeedy be very careful, hes an idiot for doing that to you i swear

[PotatoGirl]

Well I'll tell ya my own embarrassing stories so you don't feel like the only one.

I'm mostly annoyed about the house I lost too, I trashed it because I didnt want to create more work for myself trying to convert even more gil for the transfer. And if (more like when) I transfer back, I wont even be able to get a house again until the let houses auto-demo again :l

I should have stayed firm on not transferring, but I wanted to go/try somewhere new .-.

[KitingGenbu]

I'm mostly annoyed about the house I lost too, I trashed it because I didnt want to create more work for myself trying to convert even more gil for the transfer. And if (more like when) I transfer back, I wont even be able to get a house again until the let houses auto-demo again :l

I should have stayed firm on not transferring, but I wanted to go/try somewhere new .-.

I'm sure you all will find hmi/her/other that you are looking for, just need to be sure on what you will and will not do as well as seeing what they are willing to give for you as well. Many people forget about the latter when they are in the 'dating' stage.

[KitingGenbu]

But the dress! The dress!

I actually feel like I should expand on what you said about seeing what people will give as well as what they get.

I *still* feel sick, like I want to throw up, when I think about transferring to meet someone else only to basically ruin my entire game play experience. If you had asked me a few months ago if I could ever feel that way due to a video game I would have said no way.

People are very good at putting their best foot forward, rushing into something based on an initial impression is not a good idea.

But then again, there is the dress...

Well I'm sure there are plenty of people who will happily marry you for the items even though I'm sure you would like more.

As for as forming a connection, usually those things take quite a bit of time of being around each other and can't really be rushed regardless of how sure we may be of ourselves and so on. Sadly its try, try, try again effort if its really desired. Honestly, Balmung does not look like a bad place to start since its always locked out and you'll probably be constantly swarmed by people till you accidentally find someone you connect with. I was personally thinking about transferring there since Diabolos seems a little dead for my taste (not saying the server is dead as a whole, just social wise).