Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[AltanRapsied]

[Wolfyboy]

Excuse me, could you remove my name from the list? I honestly forgot I was still up there, and don't want to disappoint anyone else in case they come to chat with me. Thanks. :P

[Twilite]

Mine did not work out...

[Bokuhn]

Mine did not work out...

You should look unto the sun! Sol Sabaku that is! It is too bad you're on Malboro. . Though I do hope you find someone to enjoy Eorzea with!

[Sylvanae]

You can take me, Sylvanae R'thir (Tonberry, former Cerberus) and Freyja Sprengistjarna (Tonberry) off the list! We will be setting a date when the reservation restrictions are lifted. ^_^ We've been connecting very nicely since the start, building something up since.

Great thing you're doing here, Dekal! You're making a lot of people here happy and will hopefully continue doing so!

[Twilite]

Sorry but I'm not feeling very confident about bonds anymore.. I must be pretty bad..and not sure I can survive another hheartbreak.

[dekal]

Sorry but I'm not feeling very confident about bonds anymore.. I must be pretty bad..and not sure I can survive another hheartbreak.

I suggest you to no transfer to servers right away. Lvl an alt and talk with the person. One week should be enough to see whether or not that person is really interested to be your friend or want just the glamour.

I know some people are cool and nice, but don't take in consideration that other ppl want to see progress in the game with this new friend/lvling partner. If it were just to talk and nothing together, I don't see the point to EB cuz u cannprrtty much do the same with other ppl.

I can give you an example in my situation with liliana. She got addicted to chocobo races /my fault D:/, but I help her by clearing dungeons she need and in the same time we do roulettes. We have a fun time and a lvling time that we both work together to achieve higher lvl. I want to help her get ravana book for her SMN/sch so I need to push her to lvl >>.... But in the same time I'm lvling some alt classes I don't feel like lvling although I want to lvl them.

[Twilite]

It wasn't for glamour.. I don't know how to explain it. Im hurt because I responded to her cry for hhelp. She wanted a friend. So I'm transfered so we could play together. She was waay behind and a fresh 50. We spent all night trying to unlock roulettes for her. She told me how she was treated badly by others players and looked to me as a 'protector' as I have thicker skin. I have to edit this a lot since I'm on my phone ...

On day 2 we started getting real close pretty fast. This was mutual and unexpected. However the critical mistake I made was I didn't tell her I was a guy. I didn't think much about it since you know..I was there to be a friend.

On day 3 she pushes for marriage. at this time we havent tried continuing to get her caught up. Shes just wanting to talk to me.

More editing..

On day 4 we're at the chapel after finishing the process and spend all night there. We confess to each oother. And some point my brain reminds me that we don't know what are genders are butshe was oobviously female. So I tell her. She's OK with it. Seemingly. But she makes a ton of hints that she is in fact a lesbian.

Day 5 excused start and I sense she is looking for excuses to break it off instead of being straight with me. We talk on thelodestone and my damn phone has hhad trouble loading it so I gaveher sanother way to reach me via phone just in case. This iis where she used that to say I was going too fast and it was scaring her. She deletedher ccharacter.

WE went too fast but honestly I held my position on day 4. She didn'twant a man and she wwasn't really looking for help. I wasted money and my time. I did a lot of things to be a good friend to her. So I'm torn and disgusted
Also I'm sure it was for the bird since she kept talking about it.

Sorry bad typing. My phone is terrible and I hate being in situations whereiI have to use it.

[dekal]

Yeah that is why I said to make an alt before transferring. You could help her that way. I don't understand why she didn't want to be your friend cuz you are a guy. You can be a girl in game not big deal. She probably wanted something else. that is the problem to rush away. I don't really care for the person gender specially cuz I want a friend. It is not like I only have guy friends or girl friends.

Don't let those experience stop you for finding a person. I would say that may be you shouldn't be the one to transfer but meet ppl that are willing to transfer. I am talking by some experience. I just got very lucky that liliana was there. I was just the fool that didn't notice her before.