Edit: doesn't matter..
Edit: doesn't matter..
Last edited by Twilite; 07-09-2015 at 06:57 PM.
this is 100% true in EVERY aspect of pretty much anything you do. Think of the opposite sex as a predator, they can smell fear and desperation. Nothing, and I mean NOTHING is attractive about no confidence.
Do you, and own it. if its being weird or insecure, own that and watch them flock.
speaking of flocking, I got hit on AGAIN yesterday. this time it was to NSFW. I bailed this time. Ladies, you have my sympathy.
Kuro Moon
BLM-AST-DRK ////Omni Crafter//
off topic but just got 50 # 8 and 9, only war and whm to go for arr battle classes ;3; probably finish 50-ing my doh/dol's, before i 50/60 my ast xD
Confidence, trust and communication. The three aspects of commitment. There is no commitment to be had if it's lacking either of the three. But while confidence and communication can..be worked out(in the case of communication..depends on the situation), lack of trust is the killer of all things. Unfortunately..lack of confidence goes hand and hand with lack of trust. This holds true for all forms of compansionship and not exclusive to relationships. I gotta keep pointing that out here because the point of this thread isn't entirely about getting with someone on a romantic level.
Last edited by Twilite; 07-09-2015 at 09:34 PM.
Lol I know the feeling, is there anyone on Odin!!!! If only I could marry myself, I'm so awesome!
I'm starting to feel that as well, though to be perfectly honest it's about 30% shame, 20% anger and 50% exasperation.I suddenly feel a little bad about being a guy, in some respects. I mean, I do understand why some females feel that way. I just wanted a friend to play the game with *nervous chuckle* though yeah, I do see how persistent males can be... I wish more of us had more control over ourselves.
But, good to see more people in the thread, can't help but giggle at some of the things said.
"We like people for their qualities but we love them for their defects." -John Myers
Maybe the reason because nobody loves you is because you are perfect. You should say it to people you know and told them to "deal with it". I can lend you a pair of black shade sunglasses if you want
You have 9 lvl 50 jobs and I don't even have the classes I need for cross-class
Congratz ^^
Last edited by Keylus; 07-10-2015 at 12:54 AM.
what if you're desperately interesting? but you are right though. If anything there are far better places to look for love than here, but what do i know? lightning could strike.Stop with the "Nobody likes me. Nobody cares. I'm so lonely." antics. As a woman I'm going to tell you: That tactic does NOT work with intelligent members of the opposite sex-- IRL or online. Several members on this forum have been nice and hinted that your tactics aren't effective. So, I'm being blunt.
Let players get to know you... not pity you. Focus on having fun. Socialize, joke around, and make yourself interesting-- not desperate.
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