Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[Arcsol93]

I can understand some people have friends, families, FC, statics and so on, but the decision is always of the individual. I know that some of our guild members were from another servers. The did have friends already in Balmung, yet they left them, but now they came back because they prefer the atmosphere of this server. What I can recommend is to see if you can revive the FC by recruiting more people. If it dies try to find another one with your friend. If that doesn't help, then it's time to may be look for other servers.

See that's the problem. We originally thought they were leaving because we didn't raid much (Still kind of do.) So we started a raid ls, but that isn't going well either. And currently I'm the only one on now so its getting kind of frustrating, I don't want to leave because it was the first actual fc where I had a family, but it seems they're all either busy with life or leave of their own accord >.>

[Cerat]

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If I had the guts to have posted sooner, I may well have joined you guys. It's always nice to have friends to play with, for sure. And I'm glad you're all having fun and that those that transferred are enjoying themselves ^_^ I might have to create an alt over there if I'm ever on at the right time. I'll be taking a different server though, and hopefully spreading the word of this thread more with it. Everyone deserves to have a friend they can meet through here. Who knows, maybe they'll take it further. And I know a lot of people that just want the items, so they might be able to find their partner here as well. It would be nice if everything worked out for everyone ^_^

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I live by a simple rule when it comes to MMOs: If you're not having fun, or the place you're at no longer feels like home, then move on and try to find a better place for you.

It's a game we all share, and it's something that you should be enjoying ^_^

If people are never on and your family has disappeared, you might consider finding a new home. Whether that's a new FC or a new server altogether. Do what's best for you, don't force yourself to be unhappy hoping that everything will come back. I'm doing that right now, so I'm a hypocrite saying this, but learn from my mistake.

Now time to sleep before I have to be up for work in 5 hours... ^_^;

[dekal]

See that's the problem. We originally thought they were leaving because we didn't raid much (Still kind of do.) So we started a raid ls, but that isn't going well either. And currently I'm the only one on now so its getting kind of frustrating...

I loved my first guild that is not from Balmung. I started the game in another server. I thought they would still be playing, but when I went to check (everyday for 30 mins) the guild no one. That is one of the reasons why I stay in Balmung. I went to other guilds too. I didn't see myself comfortable in those until the current guild I am. Sometimes there are things in life that will just make people stop coming back and that is what it looks what is happening in your guild. May be that is a sign that you need to move on. As I said in my previous post. If you can take your time and see what guild is suitable for you and if things doesn't work out, may be you should think about checking other servers.

[Reokudo]

Honestly I would move but I still have some people keeping me here on my server. Though I will say me and said friend are getting paranoid our fc is dying, so I have been thinking about it.

One of us. One of us. *Wavy hands*

[Cerat]

Honestly I would move but I still have some people keeping me here on my server. Though I will say me and said friend are getting paranoid our fc is dying, so I have been thinking about it.

I'm actually originally from another server myself ^_^ It's up to you what you do, just make sure you're having fun! I'm weird and can probably find fun on any server I transfer as long as I have someone to enjoy playing the game with, so that's why I can offer to transfer to any server practically :3

[Mugiawara]

I'm actually originally from another server myself ^_^ It's up to you what you do, just make sure you're having fun! I'm weird and can probably find fun on any server I transfer as long as I have someone to enjoy playing the game with, so that's why I can offer to transfer to any server practically :3

Balmung!

We're kidnapping the people!
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Bottom comment:
Balmung people are more prevalent on the forums honestly. I see a lot of them chatting here, in-game
and they usually have tumblr's going. Plenty of people looking for LS members/FC's...
I no longer have a FC because I left and it was the only I joined since moving there about a year? ago.
I've been to Leviathan and people were super friendly. I started there in 2.0 and hope my old friends are doing good
but since a Snowman gave me a cookie and tea randomly when I was alone in Balmung that touched my heart, left, but
returned because the community and the rp's were nice and fun. That snowman sealed the deal for me lol. I still have the cookie and tea.
I also enjoy reading RP's and doing very very small -hugs; like RPing hehe.

[Cerat]

Balmung!

We're kidnapping the people!

So I've noticed, but as I've said earlier, I'm going to hold off from transferring there ^_^ You all sound like nice people, and it would be fun hanging out, but there are a lot of other servers and I would rather attempt to spread the word around by going to a different server, even if Balmung would be fun. I've seen at least one, maybe two, people that have brought up nobody from their server posting so they haven't posted their info. I would love to hear more about them and be able to help one of them at least if they're in it for more than just the items

Balmung people are more prevalent on the forums honestly. I see a lot of them chatting here, in-game
and they usually have tumblr's going. Plenty of people looking for LS members/FC's...
I no longer have a FC because I left and it was the only I joined since moving there about a year? ago.
I've been to Leviathan and people were super friendly. I started there in 2.0 and hope my old friends are doing good
but since a Snowman gave me a cookie and tea randomly when I was alone in Balmung that touched my heart, left, but
returned because the community and the rp's were nice and fun. That snowman sealed the deal for me lol. I still have the cookie and tea.
I also enjoy reading RP's and doing very very small -hugs; like RPing hehe.

I'm happy that you have a reason for enjoying Balmung and that you enjoy it there ^_^ While yes, Balmung is one of the more active servers on the forums, I know there are people out there from other servers that, like me, just lurk in most threads because of social anxiety. That's why I'm trying to be a bit more active in this thread and draw up a bit more interest myself ^_^; I really push my own extrovert "battery" doing this, because I'm really a huge introvert, but I just want people to be able to (hopefully) feel like they can participate if more people do and show interest in joining their servers instead of just feeling like it's "Go Balmung or hope that someone from your server eventually finds and posts here" you know? Not trying to be rude ^_^;

[Mugiawara]

but I just want people to be able to (hopefully) feel like they can participate if more people do and show interest in joining their servers instead of just feeling like it's "Go Balmung or hope that someone from your server eventually finds and posts here" you know? Not trying to be rude ^_^;

It's okay! I know you're not trying to be rude and I understand.
I think we just get a little excited and love to have more friends and stuff in the LS. I am very proud of Balmung so I tend to try to steal peoples lol.
Think we had 2 or 3 come here already, they're enjoying it. I do wish more people would come for other servers to meet up with them on their own.
I think because of the whole RP aspects, it's much easier
from people of Balmung to get the EB thing going...or people just aren't as interested in it. But I'm happy the couple of Sargantas [I think he said he had moved from another server for her?]
are taking things seriously. I wanna see more relationships grow like this to be honest or people being good friends.
Me and Quince are good friends now and I'm friends with Quince/Lina/Iskander/Miles/Claire/Dekal thanks to this thread.
COME ON MORE PEOPLE OF ANYWHERE. XD!

[MilesSaintboroguh]

Rhylgeim and I are quite the pair, aren't we? No, we are not "together".....yet.

[dekal]

Rhylgeim and I are quite the pair, aren't we? No, we are not "together".....yet.

that's nice. when did you two meet? I was not on!!