Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[MariaArvana]

I've been peaking at this thread on and off for a few months now, and the vast majority of what I have read prompts me to ask:

Am I terrible person for only wanting a "one and done" wedding, just so I can get a wedding dress? u_u

Not at all. Some people only want the items and that's perfectly fine! While many of the replies in this thread are looking for varying degrees of "friendship to actual relationship", I occasionally see others who simply want the items. Just as long as you make your intentions known about what you're after so you can find a like-minded individual, no harm done

About half the friends in my group married only for items, it's nothing weird or terrible.

[IkaraGreydancer]

I just have to come here and say as a warning for those who may be looking for more with these as I was when I was here. Be careful of catfishes. Folks who want you to pay for everything and/or forks who reply to you dispite knowing what your intentions are and not give any info about themselves dispite you doing so (grammar yes it was terrible lol). I say this as some who just got 2 months of there time wasted by a guy posing as a girl irl. Just dont want other folks getting put through that.
If you smell even a hint of bull chances are it is. Just a heads up. Be careful everyone

[Omymy]

I just have to come here and say as a warning for those who may be looking for more with these as I was when I was here. Be careful of catfishes. Folks who want you to pay for everything and/or forks who reply to you dispite knowing what your intentions are and not give any info about themselves dispite you doing so (grammar yes it was terrible lol). I say this as some who just got 2 months of there time wasted by a guy posing as a girl irl. Just dont want other folks getting put through that.
If you smell even a hint of bull chances are it is. Just a heads up. Be careful everyone

Haha, yeah, this game is full of that kind of persons, sadly.

[StrawberryCheesecake]

I just have to come here and say as a warning for those who may be looking for more with these as I was when I was here. Be careful of catfishes. Folks who want you to pay for everything and/or forks who reply to you dispite knowing what your intentions are and not give any info about themselves dispite you doing so (grammar yes it was terrible lol). I say this as some who just got 2 months of there time wasted by a guy posing as a girl irl. Just dont want other folks getting put through that.
If you smell even a hint of bull chances are it is. Just a heads up. Be careful everyone

Sometimes it really do be like that. That's why I always have this image in mind when I see all that ERP which is going on between two female characters in Limsa.

[monk-dps]

Sometimes it really do be like that. That's why I always have this image in mind when I see all that ERP which is going on between two female characters in Limsa.

Gotta stay SAFE. Lock on to the plate.. RUN FROM THE MEMES.

[Wiccan026]

I just have to come here and say as a warning for those who may be looking for more with these as I was when I was here. Be careful of catfishes. Folks who want you to pay for everything and/or forks who reply to you dispite knowing what your intentions are and not give any info about themselves dispite you doing so (grammar yes it was terrible lol). I say this as some who just got 2 months of there time wasted by a guy posing as a girl irl. Just dont want other folks getting put through that.
If you smell even a hint of bull chances are it is. Just a heads up. Be careful everyone

It happens in game without even happening in this thread, in fact I'm often quite surprised when I hear how un cautious some people tend to be.

That being the case sorry to hear that it happens, I greatly dislike when anyone gets catfished... good people often get grouped with those bad ones and I'd prefer that
didn't happen.

[Deprox]

Server: Midgardsormr | Aether
Willing to transfer? No. Own House / FC
Personal interests: Music, memes, Anime, Movies, Books, Games, etc
Play schedule: Mostly days until around 7pm CST and then again from 9pm until whenever I fall asleep
Character gender: Male | Male irl.
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? YES interested in females only.
Character race: Your sexy Au'ra sugar daddy
Preferred race: FEMROE everything else is meh...but...bunny girls are the acceptable level of sexy
Main job? MNK (Omnicrafter) Can play any other role if needed however.
Dislikes: Unreliability, dishonesty.
Goals for the game: Nothing in particular, furnish my home, run content for mounts/minions/glams, socialize
Goals for the marriage union: First of all EB isn't necessary for me if it is for you well just know that unless we really vibe it's not really an option but if it does work out...I've got you covered. (You) are all about beautiful things..the girl that likes to glam/decorate but not afraid to run content. That said anything you could possibly want in the game outside of the more hard core raids (which if I'm motivated enough I have done and can do) I can make, buy, or get. You will be pampered unless you don't want to in which that's cool with me too, you do you.
Etc: My discord is Krymson#0497

[AmiRose]

You can't expect people to want to keep
chatting when you don't seem particularly interested in anything they have to say.
It's very one-sided and kinda rude. Just asking about their day, what they're up to, going to do, their likes and
dislikes is something you can just keep going upon.

I mean, it sure is one way of holding a conversation I suppose. But personally I wouldn't enjoy someone just asking one question after another.
To me, a good conversation is a balanced one. You ask a question, the person answers, you have something to add to it, they have something to add to it and before you know it you're already talking for 30 minutes.
When you just jump from question to question, it just feels like either a job interview or an interrogation.. neither of which are particularly fun. xD

I just have to come here and say as a warning for those who may be looking for more with these as I was when I was here. Be careful of catfishes. Folks who want you to pay for everything and/or forks who reply to you dispite knowing what your intentions are and not give any info about themselves dispite you doing so (grammar yes it was terrible lol). I say this as some who just got 2 months of there time wasted by a guy posing as a girl irl. Just dont want other folks getting put through that.
If you smell even a hint of bull chances are it is. Just a heads up. Be careful everyone

I'm sorry this happened to you.. unfortunately, it happens way too often.

[Jybril]

I mean, it sure is one way of holding a conversation I suppose. But personally I wouldn't enjoy someone just asking one question after another.
To me, a good conversation is a balanced one. You ask a question, the person answers, you have something to add to it, they have something to add to it and before you know it you're already talking for 30 minutes.
When you just jump from question to question, it just feels like either a job interview or an interrogation.. neither of which are particularly fun. xD
.

Yes, that's exactly what I mean. Then the convo can branch out.
Here's an example of some convo's I had.

Me: -Say something about a game or w/e-
Person: Lol.
^ I just had this one. The person literally said "Lol" THREE times in a row and before that he's like "Nice"
Really guy...? And they done this a lot too so I just was like ok lol.
--
Me: -Trying to the person to talk more- So, what's your fave FF?
Person: Well I like this one the most. -Doesn't expand on it or asks me the same thing-
--
I'm not tryna be mean but I'll most likely you ignore you.
I take interests in others interest but when they just talk about them
it makes me think they don't care to know me so meh.

The questionnaire though...I agree. My boyfriend does this quite a bit
because he doesn't really have much to say about his day and I legit ask him
to tell me ANYTHING about his day (which he has gotten better on) because it'll be
me talking for 15 years and my throat be parched and hurting. xD
I'm all like "Okay I love him so I'ma deal with this a little bit GODDOG MAN! TALK TO ME!" xD
Me after I'm done talking up a storm.

[StrawberryCheesecake]

"Hey, it's nice that you messaged me but as far as I can see I've been writing a monologue here instead of having a normal conversation with someone who showed interest in me. So if you don't want to ask me any questions to get to know me better and keep replying with only one word every time I ask you something, then I'm sorry but I'm not the right one for you."
It's simple as that. There is no point in beating around the bush and trying to get those kind of people to engage in a proper conversation if they don't want to.