Quote Originally Posted by Rasikko View Post
If your avatar is current, you're playing a female character, while looking for something serious with a real female. This is detrimental to you and it's time to make a choice. I think that there is the biggest drawback.

..Don't waste your years only looking for love in FFXIV.

FFXIV isn't the only place I'm looking. Don't assume I would limit myself that much.

I'd be glad to use my Male avatar if "eye candy" truly is the answer here. But my main really is my main, and there is a reason she is who she is and looks the way she does. But I also don't expect anyone to fully understand that.