Quote Originally Posted by Alysanne View Post
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I know what you are talking about. People do say they have relationships (friends, statics, FC/LS,etc), yet they want more? again human nature. I have been in different servers and worlds, and I got to know that not all of them are to my liking. You get to know the community in their "best behavior" when you are " a new player " because people tread you very differently than other with "experience"
Quote Originally Posted by Magic-Mal View Post
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Then my friend that's the answer. You would transfer if you got not friends. You said it, it is hard to do so if you got friends. We have to remember that it takes a lot of effort from both side to be persistent and continue talking. I met some people who would not talk much after the first meeting. That's a big factor people need to consider. I, as the one planning to move, am willing to spend time and make the other person notice me and spend time even thought I am playing an alt that is level 1?. or I, as the person who is not moving, am willing to spend time with this other person that can't play with me at all in this moment because we are trying to see whether or not we click?