There's been individuals that already found partners by looking on this list, being contacted by someone on the list or not or just someone asking them. I deleted those players profiles from the list. If there are changes such as gender, name or servers, They usually mention it on the thread and I update the profiles or, as I mentioned before, erase them from the list.

The servers that are quiet difficult to make a new character are Gilgamesh, Balmung and Leviathan? (I am not sure about that one). You need to be around 3 AM, PST time zone and try to make one character (right after maintenance). There's not problem with transferring. There's not restriction if you pay to move from one server to another.