Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[Ruri]

He has autism and I just feel horrible if he doesn't something drastic or something I don't know.

That's rough but if you wait longer it will just be more painful.

[hellmach]

So I have a problem, that I don't know how to deal with without hurting someone's feelings -_-... I'm freaking out right now and I honestly have no idea how to gently turn someone down who is of the same gender and I think wants a romantic relationship... I mean, I don't swing that way or anything and I will be completey honest after this I'm going to close out my sub and I'm not going to try this again. What the hell am I supposed to do -_-... I'm literally freaking out bad right now.

I don't think there's a way to reject somebody without hurting their feelings. The best you can do is make the fall "softer" so to speak like most women do when they reject a guy. Just be firm but polite. Don't attack their sexuality but let them know your romantic inclinations aren't they same. Pull yourself together and just do it because this situation is one you gotta nip in the bud real fast before it gets out of control.

[xeoneex]

I feel so embarrassed right now -_-. I don't even know why. I really need to calm down and get to bed :/.

[Ruri]

I can't sleep i'm kinda freaked out bad. So I finally messaged him and told him I can't do this.

Hopefully in a polite way explaining what you are looking for in a relationship. And I hope it all ends up good for you!

[Yuto_Katsuragi]

People are going to hate me for what I'm about to say but I don't care. I don't want to be around transgender or gay people. It's against my beliefs, it makes me extremely uncomfortable and I dont' want to be around it. IF people want to consider me a horrible monster for disliking it then so be it.It's honestly better than pretending I'm ok with it. Anyway I'm done hate me all you want, dislike, disagree I don't care.

Woah Dude... if u dont like it, then you should just say it. Being honest will hurt him less then something else. Nobody will hate you for being conservative. i dont know what youre trying to aim for with that Statement tho. A lot of homosexual or transgender People post here, so this Statement just feels like trolling to me? Just put a line in your next Post to tell Everyone that youre not looking for People like us. No need to make such a big Fuss and if you really wouldnt care, you wouldnt have mentioned it. Good Luck with that o/

[xeoneex]

Woah Dude... if u dont like it, then you should just say it. Being honest will hurt him less then something else. Nobody will hate you for being conservative. i dont know what youre trying to aim for with that Statement tho. A lot of homosexual or transgender People post here, so this Statement just feels like trolling to me? Just put a line in your next Post to tell Everyone that youre not looking for People like us. No need to make such a big Fuss and if you really wouldnt care, you wouldnt have mentioned it. Good Luck with that o/

No it wasn't a troll or anything, I honestly thought he was a girl just before we talked on discord. He made absolutely no effort to mention he was LBGT. I honest to God had no intention of posting this here at all but it caught me so off guard at 1:30 am that when we went on voice chat for the very first time, I was happy and excited to have a woman who was interested in leveling with me etc that I might have found that partner I was seeking. I'm going to remove that post because after sleeping on it and now that I am calm I can think rationally. I have been extremely stressed out lately so my reactions to things of this nature are really difficult for me to deal with when something catches me off guard like that. I meant no drama here I swear it. I can understand how people are feeling by that statement and that's their right and all that. I am going to keep a VERY low profile for awhile and when this blows over, if i'm still around I will continue my ad every so often but I promise you I have no intention of trolling or anything of the sort.

[Lanelle]

Server:Cactuar
Willing to transfer?No.
Personal Interests:Playing ff, chatting, music, sci-fi.
Play schedule: Mostly around at night, but sometimes during the day.
What kind of gamer are you:Casual-Midcore
Character Gender:F(Male IRL)
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Would like a female player.
Character Race:Kitty
Preferred Race:Whatever floats your boat!
Main class?:Nin.
Dislikesishonesty, people who use people, people who aren't who they say they are, fake people.
Goals for the game:Make gil, raid, have fun.
Goals for the marriage union:Whatever we both agree upon!
Etc:Just want to have fun with someone, can just be as friends too! Feel free to message me on discord.
KittyPrincess#5912.

[Magic-Mal]

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Wanted to ask just in case you're still here:

So you are with a guy. Guy knows you're a guy too. Guy is gay. Guy becomes romantically interested in you. You don't like LGBT. Meaning you have to turn him down?

Best way to go about it would be do lightly call it and turn him down. If he asks why though, you may have to tell him. He'll most likely be mad at your views but at least you said it.

[Ilyrian]

People are going to hate me for what I'm about to say but I don't care. I don't want to be around transgender or gay people. It's against my beliefs, it makes me extremely uncomfortable and I dont' want to be around it. IF people want to consider me a horrible monster for disliking it then so be it. It's honestly better than pretending I'm ok with it. Anyway I'm done hate me all you want, dislike, disagree I don't care. I wont see any of you past this anyway. I won't meet anyone here and this is probably an impossibility to find someone. Yes I want to find someone to date online. I thought maybe if I found someone playing a game I enjoyed it would work.

Have you tried not playing a female character - might be step one in trying to create your hetero-online fantasy? Also tried not being a vocal bigot? Works wonders when trying to find like-minded people for online – whatever it is you get up to.