Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[Vidu]

I'm staying neutral to this. As far as I know right now, excessive Stalking is a Reason to be Reported and also is punishable in the end.
Now what would one call "Excessive Stalking" is beyond my Imagination. I assume like camping ones FC House or Personal House for Days if not Weeks and waiting for said Person to log on eventually trying to make Player feel bad if not harrass them?

I dont think this is the right place to discuss this in detail and I apologise for derailing a thread that is supposed to be mostly about fun and finding a person to bond with, but I need to say a little thing on this matter:
Why does it has to be "excessive stalking"? Right, it doesnt has to be - if you tell someone to leave you alone and they dont: Report them, please.
I dont want to tangle real life issues to much into this, but the idea of not doing anything until something extreme happens is a bad one and should not be supported. Its this attitude that keeps women to report stalking and harrassment irl already, and its this attitude why reports arent being taken serious ("Did he hit you? Or only threaten to? Because we wont do anything if he didnt hit you, you're on your own there!").
We shouldnt wait til someone might be so afraid they dont want to log into there game anymore or cant enjoy playing it because some douchebag thinks they can get away with his sick behaviour. Why do we have to wait two weeks to report something that makes us feel uncomfortable to see if it continues? Why do we have to wait for "the extreme" to happen?

If you tell someone to leave you alone - even more so if that person is a stranger - and they dont: report them.

Thats all I have to say on the issue - if you feel you're being harrassed and you've asked the person in question to stop and they dont - please take actions and dont let it harm your experience and fun! May it be in life or in the game!

[Mwynn]

I apologise for derailing a thread that is supposed to be mostly about fun and finding a person to bond with

No need to apologize, it's a good reminder to everyone to be careful. I literally was just Questioning myself above, but yes, this is Indeed a Serious Topic in the end and should be ended.

[Mauthegrl]

this person is a fake yall need to watch for her. i talked to her last night and she said she was ok with me being a guy irl and would give it a try. She was on balmung last and she was going to transfer to jenova but im glad she didnt. after reading post about her i am happy that she didnt come. please becareful who you talk to out there. that my experience with her. thats for the heads up.

I'm not a fake I'm a true lesbian woman. I'm serious about finding myself a partner if you don't like lesbians. And helping me finding a true soulmate then don't post nasty things it as that's harassment

[LunarLunatic]

I'm not a fake I'm a true lesbian woman. I'm serious about finding myself a partner if you don't like lesbians. And helping me finding a true soulmate then don't post nasty things it as that's harassment

it is not harassment when it come from more than 1 person so yea

[Final-Fantasy]

this person is a fake yall need to watch for her. i talked to her last night and she said she was ok with me being a guy irl and would give it a try. She was on balmung last and she was going to transfer to jenova but im glad she didnt. after reading post about her i am happy that she didnt come. please becareful who you talk to out there. that my experience with her. thats for the heads up.

This is true, total faker :/ Its people like Izuka Name, A.K.A Elizabeth Name(it changes often), that destroy this threads soul. I had no idea I was talking to this person until someone mention the name and said it was a guy stalking girls, so I looked up the name and it only took me five minutes to find others that had a run in with him/her/it.

If drama isn't relevant to relationships, I don't know what is. Just saying :P .

I don't post often but I think this player in question needs a different kind of attention if you know what I mean...

Also if you go way back in the thread it's says she is a guy if she not changed that.

Hahaha! They said they were male to me, I think this player in question has serious identity issues, One minute a female the next is male then transgender, but one thing that never changes is he/she/it is hell bent on finding a female for in-game plus out of game activities.

I'm not a fake I'm a true lesbian woman. I'm serious about finding myself a partner if you don't like lesbians. And helping me finding a true soulmate then don't post nasty things it as that's harassment

What did you just say?

I have screenshots of our conversation where you made claim to be a transgender, male to female, not that anyone cares, but my point is, your straight up lying to everyone here. You continue to move worlds, data-centers, change you name often and setup party finders for: (right click image to see full size)

[Silverquick]

Lol yeah this thread just screamed scam to me when I read it.

[Vyralia]

Yay for drama taking the thread off track again

Server: Faerie

Willing to Transfer?: No, <3 my FC, but would be willing to make a new character on Faerie or your server if you want to level up together.

My Interests: FFXIV Anime, More FFXIV, Star Wars, and even more FFXIV. Have I mentioned FFXIV?

Play Schedule: I tend to be on between 8am and 11am on weekdays. Weekends the time varies depending on what I have going on.

My Player type: Pretty casual. I like to hang out and have fun. I just don't have the time really to be hardcore

Character Gender: Female character, Guy IRL. My best friend was a lesbian, so my characters were female to make her more comfortable around me. They will continue to be to honor her memory.

Other players gender: Doesn't really matter. I'm more comfortable around women than I am around other guys, though, and enjoy just cuddling (as in sitting right next to each other) if it's a lady. Just don't feel right doing that with another guy LOL.

My Race:Au Ra

Preferred Race: Not Lalafell (that's just creepy, no pedo!). I do like Felezen though. Long legs are yummy. LOL

Main Classes: DRK, or any tank class, but DRK mainly.

Dislikes: Dishonesty, and emotional manipulation. And sports. Don't really like sports, so don't expect any deep conversations on that. But I'm pretty easy going and a lot of things don't particularly bother me

Game Goals: To have fun (isn't that why we're all playing after all?)

Goals for the marriage: Someone to hang out with and have a good time with

Reachability: Leave me a message here or message me in game (Vyralia Vydan or Vystia Vyx are the characters I'm usually on, though I tend to be in PotD a lot when I'm on). I have discord (Vyralia#6460). Mic works now too

[Kirito91]

Server: moogle
Willing to transfer? I'm willing to transfer
Personal Interests: Movies, Anime, video games, running, paintball.
Play schedule: I can play almost everyday if i want to, but i don't have a schedule.
What kind of gamer are you: Normal gamer i guess? o.O
Character Gender: Male
Player Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? hoping for a female character and irl
Character Race: Hyur
Preferred Race: Hyur,miqo'te,Au Ra
Main class?: Ninja/Dragoon
Dislikes: Arrogance, judgemental personalities, elitists.
Goals for the game: Just to play the game content and have fun with someone and discover the end game.
Goals for the marriage union: Just getting to know a new person and having fun playing together,help eachother and just have a great time together and the social that comes with it all )

[SILVERx]

Server: moogle
Willing to transfer? I'm willing to transfer
Personal Interests: Movies, Anime, video games, running, paintball.
Play schedule: I can play almost everyday if i want to, but i don't have a schedule.
What kind of gamer are you: Normal gamer i guess? o.O
Character Gender: Male
Player Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? hoping for a female character and irl
Character Race: Hyur
Preferred Race: Hyur,miqo'te,Au Ra
Main class?: Ninja/Dragoon

Hello. Ever been to Cactaur? Perhaps we can hangout sometime?

[Adire]

Yay for drama taking the thread off track again

If drama isn't relevant to relationships, I don't know what is. Just saying :P .