Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[Deprox]

To be honest, I've completely given up. I don't know how hard you thought it would be, but I've pretty much deemed it impossible.

I actually can't blame you at all, in fact I pretty much did the same. The fact is if you are unwilling to transfer you just shrunk your pool of potential candidates by a ridiculous amount and the pool is already small to begin with, clearly, considering you pretty much see the same people here. Most of the people that return do so either because they dealt with some drama (like you and I) or enjoy drama (serial daters, people just trying to get others to pay for their weddings, etc. or a few dating police that feel like they got screwed over and now they want to tell everyone else how people should fit into a box and if they don't then clearly they are cheaters, creepers, etc.)

In my experience meeting people in your own server just by natural normal means, hanging out, doing stuff...is the best way.

Oh and one last piece of advice. A simple "Hello" goes a very long way toward helping you to your goal. Hoping someone is just going to notice you isn't the answer.

[AlexBjorn]

Here we go again \o\

Server: Cerberus
Willing to transfer? Nope soz
Personal Interests: Vikings,Anime,Tv Shows,Videogames
Play schedule: Depends on my work shifts
What kind of gamer are you: Chill,but also hardcore when needed.
Character Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Yes,girls are preferred tbh
Character Race: Miqo
Preferred Race: Miqo,Au Ra
Main class?: DRG in ARR, BRD in HW,and will be back on DRG for SB
Dislikes: Selfish people,Lags,rolling 1.
Goals for the game: Get full gear,master my main class.
Goals for the marriage union: Having someone to play with,spent time together,kill things together.
Etc: Marriage apart,I will gladly accept friendships from guys aswell.
I'm 24 and my discord is Björn#4830 , feel free to add
I'm italian with a decent english thò

[Aidivni]

Server: Cactuar
Willing to transfer? Possibly, if i'm able
Personal Interests: Video games, books, movies, Music and sleep :P
Play schedule: Late nights, around 1-5AM EST
What kind of gamer are you: Somewhere in the middle, I don't get to play often because of work, but I enjoy raiding and running things when I can.
Character Gender: Female
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Not really, I'd prefer a cute female character though.
Character Race: Catgirl
Preferred Race: Don't have one.
Main class?: Heals
Dislikes: Timewasters
Goals for the game: Own a personal house, get all the good glam and just enjoy the game in general.
Goals for the marriage union: Just looking for someone to play the game with really. It gets really lonely at night.
Etc: Since some people seem to want to use this as a personal dating service, i'm male and i'm really just looking for someone to play with, good or bad. :P
My discord is Aidivni#0541

[MiniOmegaDragon]

Server: Omega
Willing to transfer? no and i am locked for 90 days
Personal Interests: music anime gaming and my band
Play schedule:a lot weekdays nights weekends
What kind of gamer are you:i try to help new players as much as i can
Character Gender:male and female
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?No i do not
Character Race:Lalafell
Preferred Race:Lalafell
Main class?:Pld Sch Smn Blm
Dislikes: player that bully new and old players and and you have to do it there way or get kicked
Goals for the game:to get marred get all classes to 70 and have a lalafell kid
Goals for the marriage union: to have a fun and happy marriage and to relax with my ingame wife or hubby
Etc:i am a happy go lucky lalafell at most times :P

[GhostZukin]

Reposting because I became a male lala now!

Server: Jenova
Willing to transfer?: Can't, have house and some money
Personal Interests: Programming, gaming
Play schedule: Mostly any at the moment
What kind of gamer are you: Casual, Roleplayer
Character Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Either's fine.
Character Race: Lalafell
Preferred Race: Lalafell preferred
Main class?: Red Mage
Dislikes: Politics, other controversial stuff
Goals for the game: Become super strong
Goals for the marriage union: Someone to ICly love and cherish and maybe roleplay out a little family.
Etc:

<Archmage Ioannis>

[SheenaCKE93]

Server: Ultros
Willing to transfer: Yes
Personal Interests: Anime, video games, sci-fi, Books
Play Schedule: EST Most weekdays in afternoon/evening, most weekends whenever
What kind of gamer: Midcore
Character Gender: Female
Character Race: Miqo'te
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? No
Preferred Race: Not lalafell
Main Class: Monk
Dislikes: Liars, mean people
Goals for game: Level jobs, have fun
Goals for Marriage: Do RPing, have fun chats, run dungeons, etc

[RoseSymphony]

Updated 9/7/17

Server: Balmung and various others with lower level characters (Siren, Mateus, Brynhildr, Tonberry, etc).
Willing to transfer? No, but I'm willing to make a new character anywhere else, preferably a RP server.
Personal Interests: Games (obviously), anime/manga, Japanese and Korean music/culture/etc, other geeky things like Harry Potter, fashion (namely Japanese fashion, gothic and lolita in particular), etc
Play schedule: I try to play in the evenings after work (I work an 8-5) and on weekends. I'm in PST.
What kind of gamer are you: Mid-hardcore? I'm active and try to play everyday and I enjoy raiding when I get the chance.
Real Life Gender: Female
Character Gender: Female
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character Yes. I have nothing against playing a character that's a different gender than your own and it's not an issue if we're just playing together as friends but when it comes to EB and beyond I would rather have a partner that plays the same gender, i.e. male playing a male character or female playing a female character.
Character Race: Midlander Hyur
Preferred Race: Midlander Hyur, Elezen, Miqo'te, Au Ra (basically no Lalafells or Roegadyns ^^;; Sorry)
Main class?: Bard
Dislikes: Arrogance, indecisiveness, wasting time, elitism, dishonesty/lying, ignorance, etc.
Goals for the game: Do everything! I want to experience everything there is including leveling different classes/jobs, crafting, hunting, raiding, roleplaying, gardening, etc.
Goals for the marriage union: Ideally I'd like to marry someone who wants to roleplay together as well as take it beyond the game. A partner in life and crime, so to speak. :3 If RL is not possible we can work something out.
Etc: My Discord username is Symphony#3602. I don't really check the forums so that would be the easiest way to reach me. I also have Skype, LINE, etc. I'd prefer someone who is a roleplayer and because I'm a roleplayer, I'm a bit of a stickler for proper English. ^^;;

[WubstahWulf]

i have been on this tread for over 2 years now still haven't really found a partner too play the game with over the course of the time period being on this tread i have transferred 2 times

and i have been reading through some of the things that have been going on and i m like wth


since when has this turned into a dating tread some people want a partner too play the game with some have preferences for a girl and some for a guy it does not mean anything in most cases
as for me i have been looking for a female too play with just as personal preference being that i am more comfortable around a female intellect
i do not seek for relationship outside of the game since that wont work out anyway cause of the circumstances i live in

all i ever have been looking for is a Friend too play the game that can help me with stuff and i can help them with stuff and just get too know each other and have fun and maybe EB if that person really wants too

i don't look for a EB partner specifically since its not necessary for me

[Aelemar]

i have been on this tread for over 2 years now still haven't really found a partner too play the game with over the course of the time period being on this tread i have transferred 2 times

and i have been reading through some of the things that have been going on and i m like wth


since when has this turned into a dating tread some people want a partner too play the game with some have preferences for a girl and some for a guy it does not mean anything in most cases
as for me i have been looking for a female too play with just as personal preference being that i am more comfortable around a female intellect
i do not seek for relationship outside of the game since that wont work out anyway cause of the circumstances i live in

all i ever have been looking for is a Friend too play the game that can help me with stuff and i can help them with stuff and just get too know each other and have fun and maybe EB if that person really wants too

i don't look for a EB partner specifically since its not necessary for me

There are many issues I see in this thread and why it might not work for a lot of people. For example:

-People using the thread as if it was an RL dating service. While there is always the possibility that something in-game could become an RL thing, this is not the purpose of the thread.

-People seeking to troll, or otherwise hurt others for their own enjoyment. Or simply people that like the drama.

-Dishonest people that do not disclose certain information that should be disclosed (i.e. are you married in RL?) While the thread is not an RL dating service, the fact that something in game could potentially escalate into RL requires honesty and disclosure.

-People whose only purpose seems to be attacking others' posts for whatever reason. Maybe they had a bad experience of their own and now work hard to derail anything in any way possible
The purpose of the thread is NOT to voice your personal opinions on other peoples' posts. I've seen threads be attacked for NOT disclosing information, (such as being married in RL), and threads being attacked for actually disclosing the same information (and usually, it's the same people attacking both types of threads,which support my statement that their purpose is not to help,but simply to destroy others' efforts and prevent them from finding an in-game partner on here).

-People that find it "offensive" when someone actually has a preference between in-game sex and RL sex. Surprise! Some of us play our characters as an extension of ourselves, and just like some of us wouldn't make a "partner" of a certain sex in RL, the same applies to the in-game character. Like you said it's a matter of "intellect". I could play a female character in-game but most definitely a male personality would shine through when I talk to you. Once again,the thread is not so that you can voice your personal opinion on the matter. Like it? Great! Don't like it? Move on.

-People that do not respect the above stated preferences. If a lady wants another lady, seriously guys,stay away. Same goes the other way around.

Basically the way I see it is: IF people are being honest and very clear on what to,or not to expect from them, it's a simple matter of reading it and either being interested or not interested.
Sadly, a lot of people that would otherwise want to respond to some of the genuine ads on here don't because they are turned off by some of the reasons outlined above.

I am a good example of someone that was "turned off" by some of these reasons. I had a post at some point that was concise, honest and direct with clear directives on what could or could not be expected. But someone decided that they had to go and bash that post (same person that bashed a post earlier because it was the opposite of mine, aka dishonest), so I eventually decided that it was a waste of time.

Like others have said, you might be better off just talking to people in your server and who knows what you might run into.

[Amnesiac]

Might give this another shot.
Server: Balmung
Willing to transfer? No
Play schedule: I'm on most days, for at least a bit.
What kind of gamer are you: Both hardcore and casual.
Character Gender: Female
Player Gender: Cis Female
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? LF another cisgender grill (IRL), obviously for science.
Character Race: Miqo'te
Preferred Race: Idc.
Dislikes: Creeps, SJWs, and cringeworthy people (ex: watch a minecon video).
Goals for the game: Have fun.
Goals for the marriage union: Have a partner in crime to take cute screenies with, as well as a close friend to talk to and relate with.

Discord @Amnesia#6209, hit me up. c;

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