Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[Beskar]

Bumpity Bump. Oh, I switched back to a Roe Bro too if that takes anyone's fancy

Server: Odin

Willing to transfer? More than likely not I'm afraid. I like the server I am on. Plus I own my own house which I do not want to give up in all honesty.

Personal Interests: Video Games, Anime, Sci Fi, Pets

Play schedule: Pretty much every night unless stuff crops up.

What kind of gamer are you: I'd like to say Casual / Midcore (?). I like to take it easy when playing the game and try to do a lot of side stuff such as Maps and such. Not to say that I would like to try and raid Savage and do the extremes, just not too a strict schedule.

Character Gender: Male, and Male in real life.

Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? I would prefer it to be the case.

Character Race: Male Roegadyn now. Think I'll probably stay like this for a while.

Preferred Race: Male Roegadyn, Male Au Ra (maybe?) , Male Miquote, Male Elezen, Male Hyur (Highlanders especially!)

Main class?: Paladin at 60. I have all roles at 60, just a case of gearing them up.

Dislikes: Time wasters. What I mean by this is things such as loot role hogging and stuff. People who don't give you space. Yes, I know that this idea is supposed to meet others and play with them and such but everyone needs some alone time and not get bogged down every single day every couple of hours.

Goals for the game: Maybe clear some savage content. Keep on doing the Extreme trials when possible and just have fun really.

Goals for the marriage union: Just another like minded player to play with really. Even though I'm in a Free Company I've been doing an awful lot of soloing as of late. Just looking for a partner who can be an online friend for duties etc

Etc: I do work. There are at times, when I may not be on at night as I have to do Overtime. This includes weekends as well. There may also be times where I'm not in the mood to play FFXIV and maybe other games with other friends etc. I prefer to use text chat but if the conversation is one to one and after knowing for a bit, I will come on comms.

I am available on discord as that is my now primary method of communicating all things game related. Beskar#7456

Message me in game as well if you want too.

[Vyralia]

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You sound a lot like what I'm looking for. If you have discord, add Vyralia#6460 and we can see how we get along.

[Abednego]

Server: Balmung
Willing to transfer? No
Personal Interests: gaming, romance, general fun
Play schedule: Mostly from 3 pm and onward (EST)
What kind of gamer are you: Mostly chill, but I like to run Raids, potd and pvp
Character Gender: Male/IRL too
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Id prefer if both were females
Character Race: Au Ra
Preferred Race: Au Ra, Elezen and Hyur
Main class: Monk
Dislikes: Short responses
Goals for the game: Have fun, develop a good friendship, pvp and raids
Goals for the marriage union: To develop a strong connection with my partner, I plan on making a good friendship that lasts. and more if it works out.
Etc: Contact me through Kik at abedgoodknight discord at Abe #8041 or In-game at Abednego Blackthorne

[HaileyQuinn]

You know you would figure with a name like "Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread" it would be a lot easier to find someone?

[Daeriion_Aeradiir]

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I have to admit, that gave me a good laugh. 10/10.

You know you would figure with a name like "Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread" it would be a lot easier to find someone?

Realistically, the amount of players who view this thread are but a small fraction of the player-base. On top of that, I wouldn't doubt that there are FAR more male players in this game than there are female players. Even beyond that, you'll find a lot of players are settled into their server of choice and won't want to transfer. It's pretty easy to see why it would be hard to find someone.

While this point isn't directed at you in specific and is more or less a trend I see in posts across this thread, but being open minded also goes a long way. I see many "I'm a man playing a woman character who wants a woman playing a woman character" or "Only X race" posts. Which is fine, I have nothing against them. But all it does is limit that person even more. I know if I was a woman browsing this topic I would scroll down the instant I saw any of those posts I mentioned above. Because at least in my opinion, if someone is going to use this topic for the purposes of actually meeting someone of the opposite gender, it should be entirely about the person behind the character. Their in-game gender/race choices should mean very little in the grand scheme of things.

Also as a note, but I have no doubt that just as there's a fair share of guys who would want their eternal bond mate to be a woman/in-game woman combo, there's probably a fair share of women who would want their eternal bond partner to be a 'man/in-game man' combo too. So keeping fantasia to adhere to what potential partners would want is something to always keep in mind.

Both of my characters are bonded to good friends of mine, but if I were to post an application, it would be for the purpose of meeting new friends and/or finding another long term play buddy. If something organically blossomed as a result of that friendship, then so be it.

[Clethoria]

You know you would figure with a name like "Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread" it would be a lot easier to find someone?

Consider the following: You are not as appealing as you think you are.

1. Forum population. Think of how many players there are on your server. Now think about just how little of them come to these forums, much less this thread. You're not exactly getting Facebook traffic here. Now think about how many in that small pool fit into your criteria.

2. Expectations vs Reality. Given the multitude of reposts, it shouldn't be expected to find what you want right off the bat. I expect to find someone before Stormblood hits. But I realize that it's many months away and I'll have to wait in between in hopes my max gilled out lala will buy me several estates.

[KiraCifer]

You know you would figure with a name like "Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread" it would be a lot easier to find someone?

Frankly the trouble is no one wants to leave their worlds or their a woman/guy looking for a partner who the other gender both in game and IRL and if not then their just here for the glam what no one in their right mind gonna spend the $$ on a marriage just to be used for glam and break up 5sec later unless that what your after too.

With their being so few willing to leave their world what understandable if you got friends or a FC but most cause they don't want to leave their house so make it even that harder to find someone. So at this point just a matter of time and keep trying to find someone sooner or later got to come across someone.

[Bixillarla]

You know you would figure with a name like "Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread" it would be a lot easier to find someone?

The problem I see is your limited play time, 3 days a week, and wanting a female player that is into adult roleplaying. Those 2 things will limit the potential pool of partners for you.

Also very few of the playing population visit the forums so the pool for partners is tiny