Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[Bixillarla]

I am glad everyone doesn't think like you Saga. I was only looking for a in game relationship between characters and not any real life relationship. I am open, caring, and a relaxed person. As long as my boundries are respected I am very easy to get a long with. I have a wonderful partner now that respects my boundries and we are having fun playing together.

There may be personals reasons someone may not want to take it out of game and use the game a escape to do what they can't outside.

Do not discount those who are not interested in a real life relationship, there are some good ones out there, give them a chance unless of course you want a real life relationship.

[Nuna]

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I find that a lot of males do this to me, if there is not a chance for any lewd activities then they don't even want to be your friend. (And don't say its not about anything lewd because that's the only thing you do in a relationship that you can't do without one.) I'm quite affectionate and loving with all of my friends.

I'm happy for you and your partner btw. I probably won't have as much luck as you, as there aren't many people from cactuar on these forums I've noticed.

[SagaSoluna]

As long as my boundries are respected I am very easy to get a long with.

And herein lies the "problem" :3

As i mentioned previously, i feel that those of you who are -Friends only- are already setting up barriers, limits and boundaries before the relationship even begins.
But do not get me wrong, i am not saying that doing so is wrong, i am just saying that this path differs from the path some of us wish to pursue.

And that is perfectly okay :3 The proberbial "To each, their own".

I would like to point out, however, that many of us who are "Open and willing" are not necessarily on the hunt for a real-life partnership.
What we enjoy is the freedom and natural progression of it being one of the many directions a new relationship can take, if that is meant to happen :3

It´s hard to put into words, but i hope i am conveying my feelings on the matter correctly!

[Axia_Darkrose]

it is really sweet and exiting, dont lose hope, there is alwayse that special somone for everybody, i was fortunate to meet somone on another server (leveling alts, lol), looking forward to whatever the future has in store for us =^.^=

[Bixillarla]

Me and my partner do not do any lewd things at all, we use the in game emotes such as blowing kisses, embracing, dancing, etc. We run things together and just enjoy each others company. Not all guys are wanting the lewd type relationships, there are mature nice guys out there.

[Nuna]

Me and my partner do not do any lewd things at all, we use the in game emotes such as blowing kisses, embracing, dancing, etc. We run things together and just enjoy each others company. Not all guys are wanting the lewd type relationships, there are mature nice guys out there.

Oh I know, I wasn't generalizing all of them. I was just stating that the males I meet that only want to deal with ppl if there's a chance of a relationship tend to be that way.

[SagaSoluna]

but sadly other people will have to pay for the sins of the weirdos.

...and Alysanne shalt smite creeps and predators alike, and casteth them unto the list of black, and so shalt the rich and the poor, the healthy and the blind, pay the price for the sins of the weirdos.

-FFXIV Prima Guide 52:1

[Vivienette]

Maybe one of my problem is never seeing this "natural progression." I will illustrate with an example.
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I've had encounters like that few times before, not just here but from other MMO's also ;c
Creepers everywhere...
Worst is when they don't understand the language you speak quite well.
I'm not trying to offend anyone but there have been people who speaks another language other than English while I played MMO's who will constantly try to flirt with my character despite their language barrier. Yes they speak to some extent of being able to speak most basic English conversation but I'm sure "No" is pretty global....
Tell them No few times when they keep asking if I want to be their gf in game and sometimes irl (happens usually after I help them or if they help me with something), and they'll keep bothering ya till you black list them...
Not everyone was that persistent, but there are definitely people like that out there, even those who aren't from different countries :/

...and Alysanne shalt smite creeps and predators alike, and casteth them unto the list of black, and so shalt the rich and the poor, the healthy and the blind, pay the price for the sins of the weirdos.
-FFXIV Prima Guide 52:1

Had a good morning laugh from this, thx hahahaha

[Nuna]

I've had encounters like that few times before, not just here but from other MMO's also ;c
Creepers everywhere...

They're everywhere, mmos, chats, gaming sites in general. Just got a random add on discord from a channel I frequent who decided to paste a picture of his sausage in the chat after literally 19 minutes of small talk. Needless to say I turned off image preview in chat.