Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[Bixillarla]

Hey everyone, completed the Eternal Bond quest and have a date set, we don't have a ton of friends to invite so since we met through this posting would like to invite you all to the ceremony. It will be on Jenova this Sunday at 7am server time. Just send me a tell in game and mention this thread and ill friend you and send you the invitation.

The happy couple:

[RukiaFae]

Never realized people take this so seriously and are looking for an in game relationship.

[Twilite]

Never realized people take this so seriously and are looking for an in game relationship.

Yeah I know that's directed towards me. I think people tend to read too deeply into what I say in this thread. It's pretty common that one will think I'm looking for more. I don't talk about my first EB partner often, but she was my best friend in game. We did everything and talked about everything, and not just game related. There was no "romance". I know the difference between friendships and relationships and associations. I'm tired of being treated like an associate. She provided me with what I was looking for, and unfortunately, I lost that. Perhaps karma is not done punishing me.

Eternal Bonding isn't just for in game relationships - yes people have found love through this thread. However, a lot of us, myself included are looking for the same thing YOU'RE looking for. The thing is, friendships are no different from relationships in the important aspects. There's gotta be communication, and let's not forget that you still have to click. We also have to put up with each other's bad ways which could sour it, if not kept in check.

I'm sorry to say but running content with someone over and over is *not* the same thing if there NO connection between the two. Ya don't know me, but I've been through it all. I've befriended people that I just couldn't click with. Putting up with their silence for WEEKS before giving up on them. I take solace in the fact that I give people chances. If I want to be your friend, I'm GOING to pursue it.

[Makoto_Tayuun]

Server: Balmung
Willing to transfer? Sadly not
Personal Interests: Gaming, reading, anime, movies.
Play schedule: GMT based evenings if worked that day from 6pm onwards. if no work then all day
What kind of gamer are you: used to be hardcore now casual
Character Gender: female (male irl)
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? would prefer a female but RPing is a thing!
Character Race: Midlander Hyur (can change to miqo'te, Au'Ra or even Elezen)
Preferred Race: Hyur, Miqo'te, Au'Ra or Elezen females.
Main class?: AST
Dislikes: lack of communication, try hards, big headed people.
Goals for the game: to have fun and do some content
Goals for the marriage union: same as above to have fun and do content!
Etc:

[SerenityMacMorgain]

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Twilite, what server are you on? If you're a fan of role playing and aren't averse to transferring I might be able to help you find a friend =)

[RukiaFae]

Gee I wasn't trying to offend anyone. I was echoing the previous poster who said that it takes time to build a connection. I didn't think people who got married in the game after just meeting really took the marriage thing serious and was just doing to it for fun, items, rp, etc. To find a real connection in game or in real life takes time. Personally I would think in game would take even longer because people are not as people friendly online. That's just my two cents. Good luck but be prepared to go through a lot of people to find what you're looking for.

[Plouxx]

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I dunno if you really offended anyone.

How do I say it.... some people are just looking for different things - some just think of it as RP and some actually want the relationship to transfer to RL.

When both of these people come together it usually tends to not work out (for obvious reasons)