Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[dekal]

As a guy that has played girl characters in this game and many others, I just never liked how overly muscular the characters were. It was like people looked at Rock 'em Sock 'em robots while designing the characters. So it's nice that this game offers skinnier yet toned guys lol most games anymore though I just flip a coin cus I'm me no matter what gender I play. Though it's a little annoying when guys hit on me then get pissed when I tell them I'm a guy when playing as a girl character >_> some friendships get really shallow when that's revealed unfortunately.

Yeah that can happens. Thatbsgows u that the friendship was not real. Those people were trying to look for something else in the near future.

[dekal]

Just a bump. I ll update the link later or tomorrow.

[Mugiawara]

Keep in mind, don't server hop too much. It's like $18 and just because you can't find a lover in a day doesn't mean you should server
hop every like 3 days until you do lol. It's not that big of a deal. I'm noticing people rushing too much and then get let down
so they leave and stuff or feel disheartened. Take your time.

[PantslessPrince]

Keep in mind, don't server hop too much. It's like $18 and just because you can't find a lover in a day doesn't mean you should server
hop every like 3 days until you do lol. It's not that big of a deal. I'm noticing people rushing too much and then get let down
so they leave and stuff or feel disheartened. Take your time.

People are doing that? That's way too expensive! D:
I don't want to leave my server because I really love it but if you don't stay on a server longer than three days you'll never meet anyone..

[Twilite]

Keep in mind, don't server hop too much. It's like $18 and just because you can't find a lover in a day doesn't mean you should server
hop every like 3 days until you do lol. It's not that big of a deal. I'm noticing people rushing too much and then get let down
so they leave and stuff or feel disheartened. Take your time.

Not to be rude but it's easy for you to say that now.

Anyway I guess I'm guilty of some of that. I had issues with the one I wanted to marry. No drama, I just jump to conclusions and give up. Sometimes talking things out lead to disaster anyway and I be wanting to avoid it.

[dekal]

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She never looked a person yo EB. She got to talk to someone that got curious and came to our "mixer" after like almost a month or a bit more they became a REAL couple. She was talking more about other people that we didn't see talking to someone and just playing in game and then transferred back to his previous server. Nothing wrong g if he got bored, but if he left cuz he couldn't find anyone in that week, like 4 days online and only at night, is a bit too soon. A set up Alexis with someone. I told Alexis that you need to take time and talk to my friend to see if you two can become friends and do the EB. After 2 weeeks of doing what I suggested him, he is going to EB my friend. Don't have a day but they will do it. I know some will say in a week is fine, but in reality it is not. At least you both just want the items.

[Cerat]

I just want to add to the current topic ^_^ Nothing ventured means nothing gained in most cases. Sticking around a server is just as valid as transferring, but you need to be able to speak with people regardless I feel. I would likely still be on Excal afking my game time away if I hadn't decided to start talking to people and eventually transfer. You do have to put yourself out and try to reach out to people, more than a forum post might gather the attention of I feel. But also, everyone is different and what works for some won't exactly work for others.

Also Leo (AceHunterIce) asked me to apologize for him on his forum absence as he got a temp ban but will be back soon.

[Arixtotle]

Not to be rude but it's easy for you to say that now.

Anyway I guess I'm guilty of some of that. I had issues with the one I wanted to marry. No drama, I just jump to conclusions and give up. Sometimes talking things out lead to disaster anyway and I be wanting to avoid it.

Personally, I completely understand your issues with talking things out. I always tell people to talk to each other and work things out but I rarely do it myself because I'm afraid of confrontation. The best thing, in my mind, is just to hang out and chat with people without specifically looking for an EB partner. Don't jump into anything. That's really what leads to disaster. And if your first doesn't work out there's no reason for you not to keep trying! You may find out you and your first intended or even full EB partner just don't fit as well as you would like. But just keep looking. You'll find someone!

[Mugiawara]

Not worth the response.
Good luck to the rest of you folks lmao.

[dekal]

Once again please people try to talk one another. If you find someone, you need to get to know each other and then see if it is convenient to do the EB in this very moment or wait a bit more. It is never a good idea to rush.