Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[Adrameliya]

LF anyone on Famfrit just for the heck of it I just want the ring glam, I EBed in the past and turned my ring in and now I'm sad because the ring looks very good and I want to glam it.
So, if you don't have the EB items or if you just want a second set to have a male and a female set, let me know!

Add me on Discord: Chakraa#0001

Thanks!

That's exactly what I am looking for but for the platinium dress, too bad we're on different servers

[Sofia_White]

Server: Aether(Cactuar)
Willing to Transfer: Yes, no longer feel any sort of connection to my server or even my Data Center

Persona Interest: Cooking, Video Games, Music, Musicals, Museums, Fitness(mostly jogging), DnD(though it's been forever since I've done it)
Play Schedule: EST hours, I work from home so I am able to log on at mostly any point in the day, but my most consistent hours start at 6PM to 4AM
Gamer Type: Midcore player, I wont take anything outside of Savage raids too seriously since FFXIV is my passtime
Character Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Nope, as long as they're honest about their IRL age, they can be whatever they want.
Character Race: Lalafell (Note, I am willing to change my race, but only for the right person)
Main Class: Machinist

Preferred Race: None.
Preferred Class: I personally prefer DPS/Healer, but I don't care what someone else plays.
Dslikes: Rude people, people who judge someone base on their race/class choice, the word "supple", the lack of Female Hrothgar/Male Viera, Blue Mage not getting more content

Contact: Discord is the best possible way to contact me; Sal|Don't Think Twice#8740

I couldn’t find your discord....mine is Sparkles#8889

[Rasikko]

Gonna move my profile to that discord server and then just forget about it. I think this ship has sailed. Been trying for 5yrs. I know its not working out because Im specifically looking for a female in real life and by default its assumed I want more from the jump >_>. Ive been married 3 times and twice were guys. I feel like the only way to do this is to just accept guys and the hell with that, straight up. Ive contacted 3 girls in this thread, one ghosted me, the other got real disappointed at me being a guy despite them saying it was alright, and the last one was looking for far more than I was and I also had a ton of competition. The girls that post here, guys jump on them like hounds, where Im sure(as has been the caae for me) the guys dont get contacted(if they are being gender specific). Usually I drop out because I just dont think Im better.

That and my post history here, Im being judged.

[AHelpingPaw]

Server:

Midgarsormr (Aether) (Main lv80 PALADIN/GUNBREAKER)
Zodiark (Light) (Alt Lv72 PALADIN)

Willing to transfer?

I fear not, as i own a home and my friends/family play in Aether!
I guess if i met someone really special and there was no other choice, but i would rather not!

I do have an Alt i want to play just as often in Zodiark, though!

Personal Interests:

I have a passion for games, art, music, and all things cute and pastel!
I also love traveling, studying ancient history, and i absolute love cooking&baking!

Play schedule:

During work-days, usually i am available around 8PM GTM (3PM EST)
In my days off, i am always available unless i am sleeping >w</

What kind of gamer are you:

I am a casual player, who mostly plays for the story, the world and the glamours, but i do like playing dungeons and LFG raids to gear up a bit! I love taking screenies!

I have a passion for all things Nintendo, Pokémon, Animal Crossing, Rune Factory and Phantasy Star, so it would be lovely if we could play other games too!

Gender:

Male/Male

Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?

I love making friends of all genders (or lack of thereof) but i do feel the most comfortable around girls, as they tend to be much softer, and soft is my life.

Character Race:

Miqo´te

Preferred Race:

I bow to my sweet, adorable Lalafellin overlords, rulers of Eorzea!
But ultimately, your character has to make you comfortable, not me!

Main class?:

Paladin, but i also play Gunbreaker to enjoy a bit of tanking variety!

Dislikes:

I generally dislike all things dramatic and hurtful, lies, betrayals and ghosting.
Passive-aggressiveness is a quick one way ticket to my block list.

I am a delicate and gentle soul and i bruise easily, and life already drains me of what emotional energy i have to spare, so i have little precious to offer in that regard.

Goals for the game:

Keeping up with the story, dressing up in adorable costumes, collecting glamours and pictures, and attempting to keep up with the welfare gear and LFG dungeons&trials.

Goals for the marriage union:

I would only marry someone i grew close to, i can trust, and with whom i want to spend a lot of my free time sharing moments with.

It does not have to necessarily transcend the game, but i refuse to marry just for the sake of the items and a shallow friendship.


Etc:

I am posting in this thread mostly with the hope to make new friends both in and out of FFXIV and marriage is not my primary concern, although it would be cute >/w/<

I am not against finding someone special by chance, but i am not looking for it.
Just pointing it out cause i think it´s obvious no-one spits on lady luck.

If you want to get to know me or want to ask anything, you can find me at:
Ruura#8867

[XNFX2020]

Server: Behemoth (Primal)

Willing to transfer? Nope but I'll pay for yours and give you an awesome group of people to screw off with in the process.

Personal Interests: I need a buddy to play games with really. That'd be nice.

Play schedule: CST Timezone, normally after 7 PM CST I'm free on weekdays and weekends tend to be open.

What kind of gamer are you: I'm a retired HC gamer; I'm more focused on MC/SC stuff. I casually raid through savage with a buncha newer players.

Character Gender: Male

Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Nope.

Character Race: Lalafell

Preferred Race: Lalafell or Vierra.

Main class?: PLD > RDM > WHM > AST > SCH in that order

Dislikes: I dislike anything that isn't Viera. Lalafell's are just awesome, so they're an exception. I also dislike the lilac color, I find that squirrel crotch is far more appealing than anything colored lilac. I don't really care if you're a liar, you ghost, or whatever. I'm here to have a good time.

Goals for the game: Reclear UCOB / UWU / and TEA with friends and new players. Teach new players how to raid. Meet big booty Viera e-girl/boy to paint me like one their Limsa squatter Miqo'te whores.

Goals for the marriage union: Chocobo, friendship, and to share pictures of cats.

Etc: Bonus if you're wanting to exchange pictures of dogs.

[YellowCrystarium]

Gonna move my profile to that discord server and then just forget about it. I think this ship has sailed. Been trying for 5yrs. I know its not working out because Im specifically looking for a female in real life and by default its assumed I want more from the jump >_>. Ive been married 3 times and twice were guys. I feel like the only way to do this is to just accept guys and the hell with that, straight up. Ive contacted 3 girls in this thread, one ghosted me, the other got real disappointed at me being a guy despite them saying it was alright, and the last one was looking for far more than I was and I also had a ton of competition. The girls that post here, guys jump on them like hounds, where Im sure(as has been the caae for me) the guys dont get contacted(if they are being gender specific). Usually I drop out because I just dont think Im better.

That and my post history here, Im being judged.

Holy hell, what an incel.

[Rasikko]

Holy hell, look at that imbecile.

Anyway, I had to look up 'incel'.

OK. So we aren't using catfisher anymore? Let's use another name now? I'm not walking around with a fishing pole, with a bucket full of a bait that says "Gotta catch'em all".

Guess I better defend who I am.

I want to give love, boy do I give a ton of it. I never ever want to take it and not give it back, I can assure you that is incredibly impossible for me to do. For all the girls I been with in real life, they've all use to apologize(they were all broken by other men, thanks btw /sarcasm) for not giving back as much as I give. I do not force it. I have been in a relationship in the game only once.

1. I like myself for the most part, but just some things I don't like, which are hard to change, hardwired.
2. I don't do well when competing with others for someone's attention, this is due to pressure in itself invoking discouragement, I will feel like I just don't have what it takes, even if it just might be that I do. I wont see that, and give up.
3. Not sure what you expect me to say about sex. I've gotten plenty of that.
4. Women are not sex objects to me. There is a long standing reason why I play female characters and it is strongly related to how I perceive women and looks are often based on my mothers'.
5. I know when to back off. Case in point, one of them I talked to here, who went distant after I told them I was a male, I apologized once they stopped talking and left. 3rd one, well that one actually hurt because we talked for quite awhile, but then the competition came in and I lost. There was no big stupid fight, or 'pressuring to be with me', etc, I don't do that BS. I just go.
   

I stated twice in my profile that it doesn't have to be serious, because I meant it.

Unfortunately, someone took interest before I removed it my profile, probably saw what I wrote in its place and probably wants nothing to do with me now, I don't know, that's up to her.

I gave into anger, thought I was gonna be ignored because my profile was very specific, and yadda, all the stuff I said in that quote is exactly what I felt, and yeah I'm not a nice poster here because I keep having to counter all the ridiculous passive aggressiveness that runs rampant here, but in actuality I'm a very nice, understanding person. So you can rejoice I guess, YellowCrystarium, one guy less to worry about.

In FFXIV, as of now, I am flat out alone. REAL LONELINESS. I would give the entire FREAKING UNIVERSE and there is no way in HELL would I trick them or anything stupid like that. Forgive me for actively trying to do something about this.

I am done with the thread, say whatever else you want about me.

[Dreamsoap]

Just because girls get flooded with contacts by lots of guys doesn't mean they're actually "competition". It's gunna sound harsh but a lot of people just don't know how to be themselves and try to play it safe to the point of being absolutely boring or hardly talkative. Case in point, my partner almost didn't contact me because my profile left a lot to be desired (looked generic as hell), and I almost didn't respond to him when he contacted me because I was pretty over the weirdos at that point.

I want to give love, boy do I give a ton of it. I never ever want to take it and not give it back, I can assure you that is incredibly impossible for me to do. [...]

I stated twice in my profile that it doesn't have to be serious, because I meant it. [...]

In FFXIV, as of now, I am flat out alone. REAL LONELINESS.

However I'm just not even sure what to make of these statements because they're highly conflicting. If the problem is absolute loneliness in the game, I don't think an EB partner will really fix that. It didn't for us. We had to spend quite a while finding an FC that was a 'true fit', to the point where we were actually logging in and looking forward to hanging out with a bunch of friends. I'm not going to sit here and pretend either side has it worse, that's just a female perspective out in the open for you. Finding a fit is exceedingly difficult for anyone, and you stated you were looking for 5 years but also stated only contacting 3 girls. That's not really consistent with a claim of "tried for 5 years". However the most egregious statements are the ones I quoted there, as they don't paint a very clear picture towards your intentions for an EB.

[YellowCrystarium]

Holy hell, look at that imbecile.

Anyway, I had to look up 'incel'.

OK. So we aren't using catfisher anymore? Let's use another name now? I'm not walking around with a fishing pole, with a bucket full of a bait that says "Gotta catch'em all".

Guess I better defend who I am.

I want to give love, boy do I give a ton of it. I never ever want to take it and not give it back, I can assure you that is incredibly impossible for me to do. For all the girls I been with in real life, they've all use to apologize(they were all broken by other men, thanks btw /sarcasm) for not giving back as much as I give. I do not force it. I have been in a relationship in the game only once.

1. I like myself for the most part, but just some things I don't like, which are hard to change, hardwired.
2. I don't do well when competing with others for someone's attention, this is due to pressure in itself invoking discouragement, I will feel like I just don't have what it takes, even if it just might be that I do. I wont see that, and give up.
3. Not sure what you expect me to say about sex. I've gotten plenty of that.
4. Women are not sex objects to me. There is a long standing reason why I play female characters and it is strongly related to how I perceive women and looks are often based on my mothers'.
5. I know when to back off. Case in point, one of them I talked to here, who went distant after I told them I was a male, I apologized once they stopped talking and left. 3rd one, well that one actually hurt because we talked for quite awhile, but then the competition came in and I lost. There was no big stupid fight, or 'pressuring to be with me', etc, I don't do that BS. I just go.
   

I stated twice in my profile that it doesn't have to be serious, because I meant it.

Unfortunately, someone took interest before I removed it my profile, probably saw what I wrote in its place and probably wants nothing to do with me now, I don't know, that's up to her.

I gave into anger, thought I was gonna be ignored because my profile was very specific, and yadda, all the stuff I said in that quote is exactly what I felt, and yeah I'm not a nice poster here because I keep having to counter all the ridiculous passive aggressiveness that runs rampant here, but in actuality I'm a very nice, understanding person. So you can rejoice I guess, YellowCrystarium, one guy less to worry about.

In FFXIV, as of now, I am flat out alone. REAL LONELINESS. I would give the entire FREAKING UNIVERSE and there is no way in HELL would I trick them or anything stupid like that. Forgive me for actively trying to do something about this.

I am done with the thread, say whatever else you want about me.

Digging your grave deeper with this post. Pathetic attitude.

[Sated]

In FFXIV, as of now, I am flat out alone. REAL LONELINESS.

This is a lot to expect one person to fix... Not a lot of people are going to sign up for such a dependent role like that, and I would be wary of those who do.

Would really recommend finding an FC or CWL for company before looking for an EB partner.