Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[Jybril]

I’m gonna approach this a bit differently than most.

While my main is a Female Hyur PLD on Excalibur, I have alts everywhere, and willing to make new alts or transfer for the right person. I’m an older gamer IRL (42). While I am looking for someone to spend much of my game time with, I am seriously looking for an IRL partner (meaning more than friends). I am male, so I am looking for F IRL, though it doesn't matter what race or gender your character is. I’m not looking for some sort of instant relationship, and not looking for drama. Im seriously looking for someone who has the same passion for the game, and life, that I do, and wants something more than basic friendship. I have the time and the care to put into what could be the ultimate partnership. If you are looking for the same, then message me on discord. Raynstorme#9218

Have you tried other means than this forum? like why not try the PF or something and not just this forum. A lot of users don't even or can't chat here anyway.
just asking since you've been going about this about a year and yeah. It's going to be hard looking for a real relationship here to begin with.

[SILVERx]

**Server:** Aether/Faerie
**Age:** 27 in-game/IRL
**Time Zone:** U#CST time zone
**Willing to Transfer?:** Not eager for it, if in Aether, but I have a house and FC
**Personal Interests:** Gaming, movies, text/emote-based RP I like a Star Wars and Star Trek, I also play some Overwatch, Fortnite, Destiny, and CTR on PS4
**Play Schedule:** Most mornings/and nights after work mostly.
**What Kind Of Gamer Are You?** Casual. I run dungeons and raids, and like to RP. Savage content is a no.
**Character/Player Gender:** futa-Female in-game/male IRL.
**Do you care of the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?:** Depends. I’m interested in an in-game only relationship so the only, but most looking for any female that are interested and open-minded.
**Character Race:** Roegadyn / Sea Wolf
**Preferred Character's Race and Gender?:** Doesn’t matter
**Main Roles:** SCH/AST, GNB, MNK, and DNC
**Dislikes:** Elitists, toxic people, controlling/manipulative people, and lairs.
**Goals for Marriage:** Really, I’d just like to have someone to get attached to and become a lover. I’m interested in running content and RPing with a potential partner. My DMs are always open if you have questions.

[TwiibieTwuu]

futa-female IRL.

Woah...

They do exist!

[Lucifuge84]

Woah...

They do exist!

Yeah, that's backwards. They're a male irl and futa female in game. They've posted before.

[RethMezma]

Server:Brynhildr
discord:GreyTG#3954
instagram: mezma.ffxiv
IGN: Reth Mezma

Willing to transfer: no
Personal Interests: Anime, gpose, artsy, music,
Play schedule: about everyday im EST
What kind of gamer are you: Casual-ish
Character Gender: Male IRL male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? id perfer them to be the same yes.
Character Race: Miqote
Preferred Race:Female hyur, miqote, or Au Ra,
Main class?: DNC and DRK right now but i switch alot
Dislikes: Just be as positive as you can and enjoy yourself thats all i ask. oh and i perfer shorter not someone i need a step stool to meet eyes with, id rather be the one lowering myself.
Goals for the game: max out everything, and bond with a special person run around and take many pictures hence gposer XD
Goals for the marriage union: something we both can discuss.
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[SILVERx]

Oh dang, had to look back and switch the genders. I’m sorry. Didn’t mean to put that

[StrawberryCheesecake]

Have you tried other means than this forum? like why not try the PF or something and not just this forum. A lot of users don't even or can't chat here anyway.
just asking since you've been going about this about a year and yeah. It's going to be hard looking for a real relationship here to begin with.

It truly confuses me why so many people seem to rely solely on this thread when it comes to finding your special someone.
Instead of sitting here in this thread and hoping for your true love to show up, you could also try approaching people in the game.
A simple "Hey, I like your glam..." will do the trick to start a conversation with someone.

I already stated my opinion about this. But it looks like he won't change his approach no matter what. Oh well, I guess we will be seeing him here next year too.

[StrawberryCheesecake]

The main issue is that this "someone" can be a 12 years old girl.
I don't think he wants to try to pick up the first female character he sees only to get the FBI at his house.

That's where you have to be a social human being and actually ask for their age. If you can't even manage to make small talk like that and find out what their age is and if they are single then how are you expecting to be in a relationship in the first place...

[RethMezma]

i dont understand why your still sitting in this thread wondering why others are still sitting in this thread seems like you just came here to make noise and listen to yourself talk. The guy wasnt looking for you to care so much about his business if he did he would have name droped you.

[Deprox]

i dont understand why your still sitting in this thread wondering why others are still sitting in this thread seems like you just came here to make noise and listen to yourself talk. The guy wasnt looking for you to care so much about his business if he did he would have name droped you.

Because it's a fair point that anyone who defers to their human nature would ask as much as one would ask why some people enjoy trying to push a boulder uphill. The fact is that people, which goes for most of the people in this thread (myself included as I'll do the same after random periods of time look for what I know is not there), continue to have hope no matter how much the odds are against them...and it's perfectly reasonable to ask why when it makes no obvious sense whatsoever. Your chances of finding what you're looking for are slim and get slimmer still when you start whittling away at the pool by limiting things such as whether or not one can transfer servers, what genders or races you are open to meeting up with, etc. Discord is even more of a joke because there it's simply people forming little cliques (purposefully or not) that don't do anything really other than talk about random bs for the sake of filling up their day. Is there anything wrong with that? Absolutely not but is it going to get anyone closer to solving the issue they came here for? Nope...and that's not a guess, that's factual. I would guarantee you that 97% of the people that join those discord channels, regardless of whether it cured some boredom within them, did not find what they were looking for. In a forum such as this at least all the unnecessary noise is filtered out so that you can get to the actual issue at hand...but most likely still ending in the same inevitable conclusion.

Being that you wouldn't know the history of whom they are talking about without going really far back to read all of the posts, it's a tad premature and rude frankly to assume he took the time to hear himself talk rather than what it looks like to me which is to try to provide a solution that helps this individual. Also being that I know the individual beyond just posts in this forum I'd also go a step further to say you couldn't be more wrong in that the person does in fact want someone to care about his business...whether he would admit that or not I'm not certain.