Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[NintendoAnimeFan]

why don't you guys just... date each other? You've already got stuff in common.

Because I’m not into men.

[NintendoAnimeFan]

Hmm do we need a new system to help people find like minded people to play with for whatever reasons? Maybe a more deep question type thing? Also got an odd question, which female race is the sexiest? My list is Midlander, Viera,Miqo,Au Ra,Elezen and Highlander. But it really depends honestly. But that\\\\'s mine from best to ok.

It’s not so much the system needing a change, as it is female players ghosting and/or blocking people without warning. That seems to be a big problem in this thread. That said, deep questions sounds interesting, and might be something to attempt at least on a trial basis.

As for your other question, personally I think Miqo’te, Au Ra, and Viera are the sexiest females in the game.

[Ssmiley_Bjakkzz]

Im still intersted just dont be creep, Pm me ingame Twitania catch me there
Seeeee yaaa pang poof out me go!

[Noitems]

Because I’m not into men.

Not with that attitude.

[Goji1639]

I predict a lot of dudes with male avatars hooking up with dudes with female avatars. MMO love at it's most pure.

[347SPECTRE]

That is why I explicitly put the fact that I'm a dude in my post.

[NintendoAnimeFan]

That is why I explicitly put the fact that I'm a dude in my post.

If only everyone would reveal what they were in their official posts, it would make things so much easier.

[Arthrun]

If only everyone would reveal what they were in their official posts, it would make things so much easier.

So I want to share my experience with my current EB partner.

So as some may be aware I was actively looking for a EB partner within this thread hoping to find a friend/companion/someone to just hang out with online. And to give a little set up I am strait and my EB partner is gay and we are both dudes.

I have talked with a lot of people. Because of that I am legit surprised of how many girls actually play. That being said it does make it easier if people would just be honest with themselves and where they are in life. My EB partner was trying to hide as a girl for a time, (which I had my doubts simply because If you pay attention you can tell certain ways of how girls and guys talk differently during chat.) After a while he came clean and I ended up appreciating the honesty more than anything. Some of the real girls I was talking to I was getting the feeling that I was being used to pay for their glamour and or just the over all feeling fake. (with the exception of 1 or 2 people.)

But my EB partner was there for me even through some rough patches. It was a real friendship I felt even if we have only been chatting for ... what a month? And this more or less became what it was because he was honest with me in the end. Now I have a partner in crime, someone I can message in discord about the stupid stuff that happened at work and I get a response "Don't worry your Waifu will take care of you. but before that I need my WHM weapon so get your a** online when you get home I need a tank." I basically turned down a IRL girl in game because I wanted real honesty. And because of that now I have an in game wife that I can /dote on despite the crap that that is happening in the real world.

...Well we met when he was Fem Lalafell. Did the EB ceremony with a Fem Elezan. Now he is trying to show off his Male Catboy glamours.

Avatars only mean so much compared to the person behind character. So just be honest with who you are, because you just might find that person who thinks your awesome regardless of what Avatar you use.

https://www.photobox.co.uk/my/photo/...d=502265934895
Link to a screen shot because I do not know how to get a photo to show up on the forums

[DevilsDontFly]

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That is a really nice story and I'm glad you managed to find a nice friend to EB with that gives you the security you needed to go through with it.

I do agree in regards to honesty on that part, and I think another big problem is that people for some strange reason seem to be iffy about being transparent with their intentions. If you want only a friend, why the gender of the person behind the character has any implications towards a virtual marriage as long as their avatar is female/male/whatever appeals to you? That in itself tells me that the person looking for an EB, even if "just for friends", is already projecting an idea of "what if it turns serious down the road" before even meeting someone. Obviously online relationships happen and long distance relationships for the most part start that way, but even those take time and more often than not it happens naturally just because instead of because people examine each other through a catalog.
There's absolute no shame in wanting to be with someone and meet someone to be in a relationship with, and I encourage people to do it if their hearts desire that. However using the "just looking for a friend, nothing serious, I don't want a relationship but hey, you HAVE to be a dude/girl IRL" just comes off as a little weird to me. You're either looking for a strictly ingame EB, or projecting through the EB your desire to get to know your "candidates" better down the line and then attempt to take things outside the computer. Which is totally fine, but lack of transparency about that is what makes so many attempts and matchups in this thread go downhill.

That and the occasional creep show.

[Goji1639]

That is why I explicitly put the fact that I'm a dude in my post.

You'll never get a in-game significant other to buy you stuff at this rate.

*uses fantasia*

Cute girl gamer here just looking for a sweet guy who treats me nice!! XOXOXO