Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[Melichoir]

Thoughts real quick:

Random question, not to debate or anything but something that crossed my mind
Typically people can get used to the presence of another
in this case what I have in mind is
There are people who are looking for strictly in game romances and stuff etc etc
soo with that being said
what happens when the other person decides they want to find something proper?
Have/are any of you not looking for anything real, been with somebody in game a while and they leave for something proper?
Call it my own little study, how does that work, how does the person feel who doesn't want anything real (at all) when the person they're always with normally isn't there anymore?

Educate me ^^, I'm not here to ridicule or make an example of anybody for their preferences

This is the post that derailed this thread.

Whether in good faith or not, please stop responding to these kind of posts (or kindly suggest they start a thread). These kind of things almost always snowball and get out of hand because one small comment leads to another which leads to someone commenting on something that another takes offense at and then its a crapshow. If people are popping in with questions, just ask they start a new thread and respect that this one is mainly for people finding people.

Beyond that, whatever the conversation is now, people should drop it. Stop responding to other people's comments and just refocus on the core goal of the thread. If anything, itd be ideal of a mod could come in and wipeout the last few pages.

[NintendoAnimeFan]

Thoughts real quick:



This is the post that derailed this thread.

Whether in good faith or not, please stop responding to these kind of posts (or kindly suggest they start a thread). These kind of things almost always snowball and get out of hand because one small comment leads to another which leads to someone commenting on something that another takes offense at and then its a crapshow. If people are popping in with questions, just ask they start a new thread and respect that this one is mainly for people finding people.

Beyond that, whatever the conversation is now, people should drop it. Stop responding to other people's comments and just refocus on the core goal of the thread. If anything, itd be ideal of a mod could come in and wipeout the last few pages.

At the time I'm typing this, this post is starting a new page on the thread. Let's use this page to get back on track towards the core goal of this thread.

[Aelemar]

That category is broken up in a couple of ways. some are married and claim they can do anything on line BUT never meet in rl. I won't say they are or not being honest about that they can or can't do it. it's just hinky to me unless you get their SO to tell you its ok.

I personally think that this one doesn't really make a lot of sense. I mean, specifying that you are "married in RL" in itself will cut your chances of receiving a reply by at least 90%. So why bother putting information that would greatly diminish your chances of someone contacting you? When you could have much better results by lying and simply saying "I'm not interested in an RL relationship at all, and would like everything to stay in-game/online".

In other words, if you're going to lie about being "married but able to do anything online as long as we don't meet in RL", then might as well just hide the fact that you're married altogether, and come up with some BS excuse as to why you don't want an RL relationship.

Which would you say is more trustworthy: The one that says "no RL relationship" with vague reasons (or none) (and it has happened tons of times that big drama has ensued because certain people didn't bother to disclose their RL status/preferences to in-game partners)
Or the one that says "No RL relationships, and these are the reasons why"

Whether their SO has actually given approval or not is beside the point, in this case. But the fact that they choose to disclose such information (that once again, greatly diminishes the chances of a reply) when they could very well simply choose to omit it is worth some consideration.

[Sinon_Sharpshooter]

Repost ;3

Name: Sinon(ig)
Gender: Male, irl and game
Location: South Africa
Age: 25(26 soon)
Server: Louisoix
Willing to transfer: sadly not
Interests: Games, anime, series, cats, game design(hobby)
Do you care if the player irl is not the same gender as their character? not really tho prefer female ingame if interested to EB
Play schedule: Everyday mostly
Preferred race: none
What kind of gamer are you: love doing all content, very patient aswell
Main class: Atm only have a level 55 bard
Likes: having fun, relaxing, no stress
Dislikes: Lies, mean/toxicness
What I look for a partner: Kind/nice, be honest(feel free to say if something bothers you)
Ect: I can be shy a bit at the start due to personal reasons(can ask if you like to know)

Looking for friends/partner ingame mostly ;3

My dms are always open if you wanna chat ^-^

Divine Light#6431

[WarzonePrez]

Thanks but I am not the one who should be getting popcorn, I was saying that Yenyen may want it because of asking the question. This other stuff I have little to no interest in. This behavior just shows why its so hard to find the right person for each other. Why people get the wrong impression of others and why tact in the world is in a coma. Yenyen is doing a study and probably learning a lot more than bargained for.. like others may be.

I agree, Tact is in a coma. But so is communication. Rather have communication than dead silence (despite my recent experience). Can't fix what we don't know is broken, even in a forum post.

But that said....I'll help return us to our regular scheduled broadcast. *hands you Groucho Marx glasses, because I can*

[EpiOni02]

.°୭̥'╭❥ *:･Epiphany Onishi;;

Server: Sargatanas

Willing to transfer? Not really, maybe...i don’t know.

Personal Interests: Sleeping, Gaming , Drawing, love music and lots of stuff.

Play schedule: Random, but im on almost all the time.

What kind of gamer are you: Casual oo)7

Character Gender: F

Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Not at all.

Character Race: Viera but i use fantasia a looot.

Preferred Race: I don’t really care, but my eye candy would be Miqo and Aura M. Lol

Main class?: Dancer, Red Mage and Scholar. <3

Dislikes: Elitists, people without patience, toxic players and the list goes on.

Goals for the game: Lvling , exploring everything in the game, buy a house and other stuff. Become a mentor, i like to help people.

Goals for the marriage union: Honestly have fun, someone to play with and not be lonely , a nice and kind person. Someone to really bond with and be friends.

Etc: Im Female irl and English isn’t my first language. I wouldn’t mind girls too. :3

[WarzonePrez]

Character : Raynstorme Denulas (F Hyur PLD, Exca), Snowstorme Denulas (M Hyur PLD, Bryn)
Server: Excalibur (Also have alts on Byrnhildr)
Willing to transfer?: I'm open to it if and only if we click.
Personal Interests: Gaming (Playing FFXIV and WoW, as well as various games on the Switch), Baking, Building things, Singing, Writing
Play schedule: Daytime or extreme late night EST, with work days off being Thursdays and Saturdays
What kind of gamer are you: Somewhere between casual and hardcore. Limited by time, but not by desire.
Character Gender: F in game / M IRL (I do have Male toons on Famfrit and Brynhildr though)
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Don't care if the person's character matches their own gender, but prefer someone F IRL if it gets to the point of EB....though at this point I'm guessing all bets are off.
Character Race: Hyur Midlander
Preferred Race: Any
Main class?: PLD
Dislikes: Eureka, but willing to run with someone that wants to. Dislike PVP, and elitist gamers. And people who make me feel like a third wheel. I'm awkward, and don't need any help being more awkward. Also dislike silence, as I like to communicate.
Goals for the game: Just to gear up, have fun, and slaughter primals.
Goals for the marriage union: To form a connection with someone both inside and outside the game. To have fun together playing the game, running roulettes, etc. Companionship. (A pocket healer wouldn't be a bad thing lol)
Etc: Mostly looking for companionship while playing the game, as I tend to find myself doing things alone. Alot. While I'm an excellent tank, and have a deep fondness for the game, I'm finding a lot of people either don't play when I do or whatever. I'm looking for my gaming partner. I'm 42 IRL, and know there are not many on here in that age range, but I'm open. I just want to find someone who has the time and is willing to spend it with me doing what we love best. But I'm also looking for that someone to someday EB with me if we click. Looking for someone I can trust who will trust me just as much, which has proved very difficult. My Discord is Raynstorme#9218. Please friend me and message me if you are interested.

[Kite_asaki]

Server: Excalibur
Willing to transfer? No as my brother and one of my best friends in real life who runs a guild is on this server as well (sorry). I can pay your portion of the Platinum Eternal Bond if you need.
Personal Interests: I like building gunpla, playing videogames like smite, payday 2 and other games (i own ps4 and switch), driving, watching anime, and spending time with my dogs and or friends.
Play schedule: I work 3 days a week from 6pm to 630am MST (AZ time). Other than that I can play anytime except for a few rare occasions.
What kind of gamer are you: Casual but can be Serious if needed.
Character Gender: My character is male and I am Male (25yrs) as well.
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? I am looking for a female in real life (reason being as I'd like to have an in game relationship with someone who is not a guy [sorry just can't see myself enjoying a romance with a guy]).
Character Race: I am a miqo'te/ keeper of the moon. But i sometimes change my race if i get bored.
Preferred Race: I don't mind any race except Hrothgar.
Main class?: I have scholar at lvl 70 but I am now maining gunbreaker as it is absolutely amazing. I also have monk, bard, black mage and paladin at lvl 50.
Dislikes: I honestly don't really have any dislikes except maybe the people who are the super defensive type (who are insulted by everything ex: taking suggestions as commands).
Goals for the game: I'd like to get at least each type to 80 (tnk, melee/ranged dps, hlr, and caster). I also just want to enjoy the game and not rush when i don't want to.*
Goals for the marriage union: I would like someone to adventure with in game that is a female in real life. I definitely wouldn't mind if the relationship was further than game; however, I will respect if you want to keep it in game. I also really want the items from the platinum EB.
Etc: Right now I'm in Mexico City on vacation to see my grandparents so I won't be able to get on till August the 18th, but can talk over discord or instragram. Best way to message me is on through discord, Instagram or psn.
Instagram: kite_asaki
Discord: kite_asaki#7441
Playstation: Kite_asaki

[FreudM]

Server: Tonberry
Willing to transfer? No
Personal Interests: Casual
Play schedule: Currently on Friday, Saturday, Sunday and some special occasion for now
Character Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Nope
Character Race: Anything
Preferred Race: Anything
Main class?: Any
Dislikes: Begging
Goals for the game: Casual DR and Treasure maps
ETC:

[Aladire]

.°୭̥'╭❥ *:･Epiphany Onishi;;

Server: Sargatanas

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Hello there! If you are looking for a friend to play with, I would love to join you. I am casual due to being so busy during the week. I normally get on after 8pm Central.

I am currently looking to gear my WHM and PLD, complete old content savage and extreme as I did not get to do those from being busy, and level more combat jobs. I enjoy talking in discord, but not required. Just find it easier to joke and ask questions.

I am a very patient guy and open minded. While I dont know any other language, I am willing to go slow to understand.

My discord is (in case you cannot find me in game): Aladire#7793

By the way, same goes for anyone else that is looking for a friend for now. I been lonely playing by myself.