Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[Magic-Mal]

We should start a "Mega-hookup Success" thread :P

That wouldn't go well as it probably wouldn't get past 2 pages.

[reyvaliante]

Server: Cactuar

Willing to transfer?: Nah

Personal Interests: Anime, Music, Movies, doing nothing and just existing

Play schedule: Mornings and nights mostly

What kind of gamer are you: Casual. I play for fun times and to relax

Character Race/Gender: Male Hyur

Main Class: Paladino/ Red mage

Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?: Yeah female please but i dont care enough to actually ask

Character Race/gender of partner: Anything but lala. looking for female character

Dislikes: Avocados and the word dumbfounded and people who try to make small talk in the restroom

Goals for the game: I live for the story and chilling with cool people, kinda to escape the irl world

Goals for the marriage union: I just wanna get the white chocobo but id be cool with having an actual in game bond with partner It would be fun to have a new friend .

Discord: reyshadows#3589
PSN: reyshadows

[DotoriMook]

Server: Gilgamesh
Willing to transfer? Nope! I have FC and friends in Gilgamesh.
Personal Interests: Gaming, Anime, Webtoon, Romance novels, exercise
Play schedule: Whenever I'm done with school and mostly weekends
What kind of gamer: Casual~ Midcore
Character Gender: Female IG/RL
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? I'd prefer Male IG/RL or Male IG/Female RL.
Character Race: Au Ra
Preferred Race: Any!
Main class?: RDM
Dislikes: Be honest, but pls don't be rude.
Goals for the game: Contents!
Goals for the marriage union: Mostly for glamour, mount. But I can do social and run stuff together if you want.
Etc: I prefer platinum marriage. I am busy in RL, so Discord preferred Allegreso(Dotori)#4578. You can also add me/send me tell to Dotori Mook!

Feel free to shoot me message! I don't bite

[Deprox]

like many other people have previously stated, it’s better to actually approach people within your server or your fc mates and branch out from there.

Exactly, in fact anyone who comes on here and puts "No" for the question are you willing to change servers, you are pretty much wasting your time here and would be better served just branching out in your own server and taking a risk and talking to people. I mean it should be clear that if no one is willing to transfer then that leaves your pool pretty empty.

[sereh]

Well sure, though I suppose for some it might be the money thing, I mean I'm sure not everyone wants to fork out to transfer, especially if it doesn't end up working out after all. Or they simply cannot afford it?

Everyone's situation is different, like yourself you stated previously your a leader of a FC so your not looking to move which makes your pool pretty empty lol.

[Deprox]

not everyone wants to fork out to transfer, especially if it doesn't end up working out after all. Or they simply cannot afford it?

Cost is the cause of why but we're discussing is the effect which is that if no one can transfer then you have no pool. If you've read through the vast majority then you'd see that a huge percentage are unwilling to transfer. Approaching people in your own server where you love your fc and don't have the flexibility of making a move is the best option. No matter how small your server meeting people local has a better % chance than the possibility of finding someone in a forum where next to no one can actually transfer. On the other hand if you ARE willing to transfer then the math is in your favor and you have the largest possible pool because of your flexibility and ability to meet anyone from any server.

So it's not a matter of affordability it's a matter of creating the best possible outcome for meeting someone.

[Deprox]

especially if it doesn't end up working out after all.

Also if your mentality is this then you're doing it wrong. When it comes to meeting people you do so realizing that you are going to potentially meet a whole lot of people who aren't a match before you find the right one. In something like this you don't just get to dip your foot in the pool until its the perfect temperature. You dive in period understanding the risk or you don't do it at all.

[sereh]

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Now I do agree with this yes, if you have a place you simply and don't want to leave there sure go ahead, it doesn't hurt anyone still really to try there hand on here at the end of the day.

Now regarding my so called mentality, I am happy to meet people, chat with them learn what we may enjoy etc together. This is after all what making alts and possibly chatting on Discord is for, you can soon enough learn if the simple things will work for you both.

I'm talking about more after all this, say for example you learn and meet and find you get along, then they disappear or something happens and they cannot get on. You may decide your back to square one and you don't really want to pay yet again to transfer. Which honestly some might, those £12 do end up adding up over the time. I'm all for speculate to accumulate but there is also the point when it becomes too much.

[rosenblueth]

Exactly, in fact anyone who comes on here and puts "No" for the question are you willing to change servers, you are pretty much wasting your time here

Well I think that's a pessimistic way to go about it actually o_o it depends on your server's population, really, and not everyone who looks at this thread posts. I mean I see where you're coming from considering you're in Midgard - I come from there originally and it was kinda dead LOL.. but I've met lots of Hyperion (5? more?) people from the thread and I'm sure people from, say, Balmung and Cactuar could say the same. You're not gonna get along with everyone but what I'm trying to get at is, not being up for transfer isn't an automatic Better Luck Next Time, Kid.

[Reji]

Already bought Platinum wedding
Character name: Reiji Kurogane
Server: Faerie
Willing to transfer?: Sorry No
Personal Interests: Games, Anime, sometimes cooking.
Play Schedule: Almost always on EST
What kind of gamer are you: Casual - Midcore, I raid but I'm laid back.
Character Gender: Male Ingame + Irl
Character Race: Miqote
Preferred partner's gender: Female
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character?: Yes, Id prefer to marry a female
Preferred Race: Au Ra, Miqote Female
Main class?: RDM but also leveling other classes
Dislikes: Drama, rude, the normal things.
Goals for the game: Everything that we can do possible.
Goals for the marriage union: Have a partner to play with, and talk, and do a lot of things together.
Etc: I am a very straight foward and blunt person.
Discord: Piitaa #7286