Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[Unsung_Wanderer]

Not​ really. The part that is making guys think it is welcoming is cuz she plays a female character. Other girls who mentioned the same but have played/continue playing/or will play male characters are not visited by guys (of course there are exceptions)

My point is that she didn't make it a requirement that she wanted a female. She used the word prefer meaning not required but wanted. So how can you get upset when people come if they think they got a shot?

EDIT: One more thing I don't think you're wrong all I'm saying is don't put a sign on the window that says "We prefer cash" and get mad when people try to pay with credit. Preference doesn't indicate requirement.

[Magic-Mal]

My point is that she didn't make it a requirement that she wanted a female. She used the word prefer meaning not required but wanted. So how can you get upset when people come if they think they got a shot?

EDIT: One more thing I don't think you're wrong all I'm saying is don't put a sign on the window that says "We prefer cash" and get mad when people try to pay with credit. Preference doesn't indicate requirement.

I'm pretty sure "I prefer other girls" is used because it's the nice/easy way to say "No guys". I would think it's pretty obvious for people that the person likes other girls but guys tend to answer regardless of whether or not they say "girls preferred" or "girls only". Hoping that maybe they might be the exception.

You don't see the girls responding to guys who want other guys.

[Unsung_Wanderer]

I'm pretty sure "I prefer other girls" is used because it's the nice/easy way to say "No guys". I would think it's pretty obvious for people that the person likes other girls but guys tend to answer regardless of whether or not they say "girls preferred" or "girls only". Hoping that maybe they might be the exception.

You don't see the girls responding to guys who want other guys.

One, I didn't make up the dictionary I'm only saying what is a fact. The word preference means leaving a door half way closed. This does not mean it is closed so don't be surprised when people try coming in. As for the second part besides the pint that there are like 4 girls in this 776 page thread girls don't need to respond to guys who want other guys they have a pool over hundreds guys have a pool of a few select few.

edit: weird looking sentence

[Magic-Mal]

One, I didn't make up the dictionary I'm only saying what is a fact. The would word preference means leaving a door half way closed (not closed) so don't be surprised when people try coming in. As for the second part besides the pint that there are like 4 girls in this 776 page thread girls don't need to respond to guys who want other guys they have a pool over hundreds guys have a pool of a few select few.

edit: weird looking sentence

If the door is half open that doesn't mean you're actually allowed or wanted in the house. Someone who isnt desperate for money won't rob you. Someone who is desperate will : p.

Also the pool isn't a select few xD. Girls are here all the time. They are either scared off, not interested in them or quit this.

[Amnesiac]

I'm pretty sure "I prefer other girls" is used because it's the nice/easy way to say "No guys". I would think it's pretty obvious for people that the person likes other girls but guys tend to answer regardless of whether or not they say "girls preferred" or "girls only". Hoping that maybe they might be the exception.

You don't see the girls responding to guys who want other guys.

This. I also chose a more sensitive wording due to the fact that there have been people in this thread who get their panties in a bunch (again these guys who tend to act chauvinistic by disregarding girls' preferences) when a girl prefers another girl. I've seen someone post about it once or twice, thus I also tried to go for something that wouldn't trigger these types. It's funny because I don't see any guys who state that they prefer females (which, as stated by Jumper, is basically saying please be courteous and respect preference) being called out by @Unsung, yet there's a ton of them. It just happens that a girl who has a preference is the problem, huh?

[Unsung_Wanderer]

snip cause it won't let me post :/

I have no issue nor was I trying to call you out I'm sorry if I came off as hostile. All I was trying to say was that by saying preference you leave the possibility so people might try and because of it you get people messaging you. I'm not calling out other people nor am I calling you out I'm just responding to the post you made. I'm not out on a crusade to single you out or something lol.

[Amnesiac]

I have no issue nor was I trying to call you out I'm sorry if I came off as hostile. All I was trying to say was that by saying preference you leave the possibility so people might try and because of it you get people messaging you. I'm not calling out other people nor am I calling you out I'm just responding to the post you made. I'm not out on a crusade to single you out or something lol.

Alright man, it's cool sorry. Just tired. XD