Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[Mauthegrl]

I find it amusing that you dislike liars.

I talked to you in-game, remember? before you changed your name again and moved data-centers (thank you lodestone). Not only did you waste my time, you managed to try this on with four of my friends in one day, what are you doing! this is not cool.

Well I'm very serious about finding a partner. I changed my name and moved servers for a fresh start. But I am proud to be a lesbian. I am who I am. I'm trying to find the right girl for me in and out of the game. It's hard finding another lesbian partner. But I keep trying because there's lots of women out there in game for me and for real life. If you don't like me for who I am should have said so in the 1st place.

[Magic-Mal]

Well I'm very serious about finding a partner. I changed my name and moved servers for a fresh start. But I am proud to be a lesbian. I am who I am. I'm trying to find the right girl for me in and out of the game. It's hard finding another lesbian partner. But I keep trying because there's lots of women out there in game for me and for real life. If you don't like me for who I am should have said so in the 1st place.

LGBT FC/ls?

[Magic-Mal]

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[Final-Fantasy]

Well I'm very serious about finding a partner. I changed my name and moved servers for a fresh start. But I am proud to be a lesbian. I am who I am. I'm trying to find the right girl for me in and out of the game. It's hard finding another lesbian partner. But I keep trying because there's lots of women out there in game for me and for real life. If you don't like me for who I am should have said so in the 1st place.

What the ..... did I just read?

No, you're not serious about finding a partner. Your on all day long stalking girls and asking them to do things that Chris Hanson would blush at.
No, you didn't change your name and move servers for a fresh start. You moved because basically everyone that uses Party Finder got so sick of your ads and joins to warn others about your wicked ways.
No, you're not a proud lesbian, your a man, well you were yesterday when I talked to you or did you forget. You yourself posted you were a male to, you forgot about that?
No, you're not looking for the right girl. More like stalking prey, and its not okay.
No, their are not lots of women out there for you to harass for your pleasure time.
No, just, no. You made yourself Public Enemy number one, all by yourself, don't blame me or anyone else :P take a look at what your doing, its sick.

Dragon Girl?
Go femroe and I'll marry you.

That is my Balmung Alt, I made her and got a platinum wedding band only to have my EB partner go back to his wife I had moved my main too, but that's another story :P

I can't go FemRoe, I'm Miqo'te born and raised, on Hyperion is where I spend most of my days... I could fantasia my Auri to FemRoe though!

Um, is there a way to report this person and potentially have them banned? Because that is seriously creepy...

I'm glad you think so too. He has a lot of alts which make this a nightmare.

[Newmanxeno]

I can't go FemRoe, I'm Miqo'te born and raised, on Hyperion is where I spend most of my days... I could fantasia my Auri to FemRoe though!

Ok, Fresh Prince. I got an alt on Balmung too...I hate leveling tho. If you're still looking to get your Au Ra married when jump potions are a thing, I'll probably be there.

[Vivi_Bushido]

What the ..... did I just read?

No, you're not serious about finding a partner. Your on all day long stalking girls and asking them to do things that Chris Hanson would blush at.
No, you didn't change your name and move servers for a fresh start. You moved because basically everyone that uses Party Finder got so sick of your ads and joins to warn others about your wicked ways.
No, you're not a proud lesbian, your a man, well you were yesterday when I talked to you or did you forget. You yourself posted you were a male to, you forgot about that?
No, you're not looking for the right girl. More like stalking prey, and its not okay.
No, their are not lots of women out there for you to harass for your pleasure time.
No, just, no. You made yourself Public Enemy number one, all by yourself, don't blame me or anyone else :P take a look at what your doing, its sick.

I can confirm a lot of this. They were in my FC at one point during their time on Balmung. They asked out any member of my guild that was a female character in-game. Including my own boyfriend who they did not realize was male behind the screen. They were even in our FC Discord always posting for someone in our company to date them. As an officer of my guild I had received many reports from my members about their creepy activities. Even their profile picture in our discord at the time was of a "man in cat ears" which I had assumed to be them irl or just some picture they found on the internet they thought was cute. They eventually left our FC without word after all of the players had turned their advancements down. They were later spotted in PF all day asking for a partner and often seen running through the streets of Ul Dah in their small clothes, while spamming the shout chat with the same message as their PF.

[Mwynn]

...I hope you and everyone who experienced this sort of abusive behavior by that person reported them and that they will get banned eventually. Its disgusting and excatly why I started off playing as a male character - because thats the sort of behavior I was afraid of (switched to a woman who could just punch those kind of people a year ago).
Please help to remove that kind of person from our lovely game and generally kind community! If enough people fill out reports (for the same reason) they'll hopefully lose their account!

I'm staying neutral to this. As far as I know right now, excessive Stalking is a Reason to be Reported and also is punishable in the end.
Now what would one call "Excessive Stalking" is beyond my Imagination. I assume like camping ones FC House or Personal House for Days if not Weeks and waiting for said Person to log on eventually trying to make Player feel bad if not harrass them?

The "Term" Stalking is defined differently by each Person :

~ one might find that a Player Stalks him/her when the Player just follows the same Path to the Retainer Bell, literally walking behind that Player.
~ one might find that a Player Stalks him/her when the Player is constantly following one Person throughout Days if not so even tries to whisper said Player and makes him/her feel uneasy.

[Vidu]

I'm staying neutral to this. As far as I know right now, excessive Stalking is a Reason to be Reported and also is punishable in the end.
Now what would one call "Excessive Stalking" is beyond my Imagination. I assume like camping ones FC House or Personal House for Days if not Weeks and waiting for said Person to log on eventually trying to make Player feel bad if not harrass them?

I dont think this is the right place to discuss this in detail and I apologise for derailing a thread that is supposed to be mostly about fun and finding a person to bond with, but I need to say a little thing on this matter:
Why does it has to be "excessive stalking"? Right, it doesnt has to be - if you tell someone to leave you alone and they dont: Report them, please.
I dont want to tangle real life issues to much into this, but the idea of not doing anything until something extreme happens is a bad one and should not be supported. Its this attitude that keeps women to report stalking and harrassment irl already, and its this attitude why reports arent being taken serious ("Did he hit you? Or only threaten to? Because we wont do anything if he didnt hit you, you're on your own there!").
We shouldnt wait til someone might be so afraid they dont want to log into there game anymore or cant enjoy playing it because some douchebag thinks they can get away with his sick behaviour. Why do we have to wait two weeks to report something that makes us feel uncomfortable to see if it continues? Why do we have to wait for "the extreme" to happen?

If you tell someone to leave you alone - even more so if that person is a stranger - and they dont: report them.

Thats all I have to say on the issue - if you feel you're being harrassed and you've asked the person in question to stop and they dont - please take actions and dont let it harm your experience and fun! May it be in life or in the game!

[Mwynn]

I apologise for derailing a thread that is supposed to be mostly about fun and finding a person to bond with

No need to apologize, it's a good reminder to everyone to be careful. I literally was just Questioning myself above, but yes, this is Indeed a Serious Topic in the end and should be ended.