Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[Chiyo_B]

I have found my potential mate things are going very well. Gl all!

[SILVERx]

I have found my potential mate things are going very well. Gl all!

I'm glad for you. I've also found someone. I'm sure everyone's tried of me posting about. Hope everyone finds there partner too; idk about that so-called lesbian troll...but everyone else, GL.

[Mwynn]

...I hope you and everyone who experienced this sort of abusive behavior by that person reported them and that they will get banned eventually. Its disgusting and excatly why I started off playing as a male character - because thats the sort of behavior I was afraid of (switched to a woman who could just punch those kind of people a year ago).
Please help to remove that kind of person from our lovely game and generally kind community! If enough people fill out reports (for the same reason) they'll hopefully lose their account!

I'm staying neutral to this. As far as I know right now, excessive Stalking is a Reason to be Reported and also is punishable in the end.
Now what would one call "Excessive Stalking" is beyond my Imagination. I assume like camping ones FC House or Personal House for Days if not Weeks and waiting for said Person to log on eventually trying to make Player feel bad if not harrass them?

The "Term" Stalking is defined differently by each Person :

~ one might find that a Player Stalks him/her when the Player just follows the same Path to the Retainer Bell, literally walking behind that Player.
~ one might find that a Player Stalks him/her when the Player is constantly following one Person throughout Days if not so even tries to whisper said Player and makes him/her feel uneasy.

[Vidu]

I'm staying neutral to this. As far as I know right now, excessive Stalking is a Reason to be Reported and also is punishable in the end.
Now what would one call "Excessive Stalking" is beyond my Imagination. I assume like camping ones FC House or Personal House for Days if not Weeks and waiting for said Person to log on eventually trying to make Player feel bad if not harrass them?

I dont think this is the right place to discuss this in detail and I apologise for derailing a thread that is supposed to be mostly about fun and finding a person to bond with, but I need to say a little thing on this matter:
Why does it has to be "excessive stalking"? Right, it doesnt has to be - if you tell someone to leave you alone and they dont: Report them, please.
I dont want to tangle real life issues to much into this, but the idea of not doing anything until something extreme happens is a bad one and should not be supported. Its this attitude that keeps women to report stalking and harrassment irl already, and its this attitude why reports arent being taken serious ("Did he hit you? Or only threaten to? Because we wont do anything if he didnt hit you, you're on your own there!").
We shouldnt wait til someone might be so afraid they dont want to log into there game anymore or cant enjoy playing it because some douchebag thinks they can get away with his sick behaviour. Why do we have to wait two weeks to report something that makes us feel uncomfortable to see if it continues? Why do we have to wait for "the extreme" to happen?

If you tell someone to leave you alone - even more so if that person is a stranger - and they dont: report them.

Thats all I have to say on the issue - if you feel you're being harrassed and you've asked the person in question to stop and they dont - please take actions and dont let it harm your experience and fun! May it be in life or in the game!

[Mwynn]

I apologise for derailing a thread that is supposed to be mostly about fun and finding a person to bond with

No need to apologize, it's a good reminder to everyone to be careful. I literally was just Questioning myself above, but yes, this is Indeed a Serious Topic in the end and should be ended.

[Vyralia]

Seriously? We need 4 pages of flaming someone? It honestly stopped being "hey, this person is fake" at the least 2 pages ago. I get that there is a need to warn the community of potentially bad encounters, but please everyone, not so much where it stops people from finding the good ones.

Server: Faerie

Willing to Transfer?: No, <3 my FC, but would be willing to make a new character on Faerie or your server if you want to level up together.

My Interests: FFXIV Anime, More FFXIV, Star Wars, and even more FFXIV. Have I mentioned FFXIV?

Play Schedule: I tend to be on between 8am and 11am on weekdays. Weekends the time varies depending on what I have going on.

My Player type: Pretty casual. I like to hang out and have fun. I just don't have the time really to be hardcore

Character Gender: Female character, Guy IRL. My best friend was a lesbian, so my characters were female to make her more comfortable around me. They will continue to be to honor her memory.

Other players gender: Doesn't really matter. I'm more comfortable around women than I am around other guys, though, and enjoy just cuddling (as in sitting right next to each other) if it's a lady. Just don't feel right doing that with another guy LOL.

My Race:Au Ra

Preferred Race: Not Lalafell (that's just creepy, no pedo!). I do like Felezen though. Long legs are yummy. LOL

Main Classes: DRK, or any tank class, but DRK mainly.

Dislikes: Dishonesty, and emotional manipulation. And sports. Don't really like sports, so don't expect any deep conversations on that. But I'm pretty easy going and a lot of things don't particularly bother me

Game Goals: To have fun (isn't that why we're all playing after all?)

Goals for the marriage: Someone to hang out with and have a good time with

Reachability: Leave me a message here or message me in game (Vyralia Vydan or Vystia Vyx are the characters I'm usually on, though I tend to be in PotD a lot when I'm on). I have discord (Vyralia#6460). Mic works now too

(And now that I'm already posting in a thread that I never wanted to touch, because I'm not interested in that whole "dating"-aspect: I've been lurking in here once in a while and I'm wondering by now: If people fill out "Do you care if character and player are the same gender?" with only "Yes" - what the hell does that mean? I assumed by now its the same as saying "I want a cute girl playing a cute girl character"). Can anyone explain?

That's usually what people mean by it. A lot of people do treat this like a dating site, so even if they are a guy play a girl character, they want a girl playing a girl character. But it's personal preference really. Some people are just not comfortable being "married" to someone of the gender they are not attracted to, whether they view it as a real relationship or just an in game relationship.

[Mauthegrl]

I\\'ve a lot of alts because I can\\'t find the proper girlfriend for me and I\\'m undergoing a sex change hence the m2f part and I\\'m only into other women. So I am being honest here. I\\'m standing up for myself. If I were to get banned I\\'m reporting this to SE for harassment of a LGBT member. I\\'m trying for a better life and get a psychiatric help with my sex change it\\'s takes very long to do so.

[Vyralia]

Back on topic in any event since it's buried under 2 pages of crap already...

Server: Faerie

Willing to Transfer?: No, <3 my FC, but would be willing to make a new character on Faerie or your server if you want to level up together.

My Interests: FFXIV Anime, More FFXIV, Star Wars, and even more FFXIV. Have I mentioned FFXIV?

Play Schedule: I tend to be on between 8am and 11am on weekdays. Weekends the time varies depending on what I have going on.

My Player type: Pretty casual. I like to hang out and have fun. I just don't have the time really to be hardcore

Character Gender: Female character, Guy IRL. My best friend was a lesbian, so my characters were female to make her more comfortable around me. They will continue to be to honor her memory.

Other players gender: Doesn't really matter. I'm more comfortable around women than I am around other guys, though, and enjoy just cuddling (as in sitting right next to each other) if it's a lady. Just don't feel right doing that with another guy LOL.

My Race:Au Ra

Preferred Race: Not Lalafell (that's just creepy, no pedo!). I do like Felezen though. Long legs are yummy. LOL

Main Classes: DRK, or any tank class, but DRK mainly.

Dislikes: Dishonesty, and emotional manipulation. And sports. Don't really like sports, so don't expect any deep conversations on that. But I'm pretty easy going and a lot of things don't particularly bother me

Game Goals: To have fun (isn't that why we're all playing after all?)

Goals for the marriage: Someone to hang out with and have a good time with

[CherryGrove]

Reposting^^
Server: Phoenix (EU)
Willing to transfer? No^^
Personal Interests: Anime, music, chilling somewhere in game
Play schedule: Mostly after 4PM GMT, all day on weekends
What kind of gamer are you: Casual :3
Character Gender: Female
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Not at all, personality is what's most important^^
Character Race: Miqo'te
Preferred Race: Prefer female Miqo'te, but any is fine as long as people care about each other
Main class?: Dragoon
Dislikes: Liars and people that can't keep promises
Goals for the game: To have fun!^^ Raiding, dungeons, hanging out in nice places
Goals for the marriage union: To have someone special to hang out with, talk and maybe rp a relationship :3
Etc: If you wanna talk, add me on Discord: Sakura Kodachi#4603

[MisterLucie]

This thread is usually so adorable.

And then the crazy happens and takes up ten pages.