Marriage Partner Hookup Megathread!

[JumperX]

@ Neo do you have discord?

[HaileyQuinn]

You know what, I changed my mind, I don't really care if the in game character is male or female just as long as they are Lala, cause hell I even think that the Lala males are kinda really cute lol, I still however would still very much like for them to be female in real life though

[Vyralia]

Server: Faerie

Willing to Transfer?: No, <3 my FC, but would be willing to make a new character on Faerie if you want to level up together.

My Interests: FFXIV Anime, More FFXIV, Star Wars, and even more FFXIV. Have I mentioned FFXIV?

Play Schedule: I tend to be on between 8am and 11am on weekdays. Weekends the time varies depending on what I have going on.

My Player type: Pretty casual. I like to hang out and have fun. I just don't have the time really to be hardcore

Character Gender: Female character, Guy IRL. My best friend was a lesbian, so my characters were female to make her more comfortable around me. They will continue to be to honor her memory.

Other players gender: Doesn't really matter. I'm more comfortable around women than I am around other guys, though, and enjoy just cuddling (as in sitting right next to each other) if it's a lady. Just don't feel right doing that with another guy LOL.

My Race:Au Ra

Preferred Race: Not Lalafell (that's just creepy, no pedo!). I do like Felezen though. Long legs are yummy. LOL

Main Classes: DRK, or any tank class, but DRK mainly.

Dislikes: Dishonesty, and emotional manipulation. And sports. Don't really like sports, so don't expect any deep conversations on that. But I'm pretty easy going and a lot of things don't particularly bother me

Game Goals: To have fun (isn't that why we're all playing after all?

Goals for the marriage: Someone to hang out with and have a good time with

Reachability: Leave me a message here or message me in game (Vyralia Vydan or Vystia Vyx are the characters I'm usually on, though I tend to be in PotD a lot when I'm on). I have discord but I don't get on very often unless the FC is doing something. Mic is broken too, need to get a new one. *sadness :'(*

[Valentine-R]

@ Neo do you have discord?

I do. I hope this will work: Neo#2914

[JumperX]

I do. I hope this will work: Neo#2914

Added you. Neo

@ amaethal let me tell you something. Does he rp? If he doesn't. Then you need to approach him from no your personal. You need to ask him as your friend. Tell him that you will like to marry his character because you think the characters would look cute together. Remember than if he doesn't RP, he will continue talking to you as himself like he has been. I don't think I is correct you still talking and making your alter ego have a crush on a person without a persona.

You must be able to see the difference between your and your character and how he will react to it.

[HaileyQuinn]

Looking for advice though. Not everyone is into RP and I understand that but, I have this friend in game, who happens to be a male lala, an in game friendship primarily. I have helped him with real life issues that we have talked about, like I have been an ear when he needed it most. Ideally he is the perfect match for my in game relationship I want so much. I'm afraid that all of this would scare him off or make him think oddly of me if brought up to him. Keep in mind I like to RP and this is like Amethals in game crush that she is afriad to take the next step with because it may scare him away, but also irl I consider him an online friend that I would do anything for. I have known him for about 8 months. What do you all think? Maybe I'm just crazy sorry...

No your not crazy Amaethal, far from in fact, but I say go for it, cause you never know unless you try right?

[JumperX]

@ Jumperx

Ya, thanks. I can see how if someone didn't RP as to where I love to but, I can differentate between the two. Maybe I'll just leave it alone, and keep trying here. When I run stuff with him and we hang and play it's just me. I would just love to RP a relationship with him, but I see where you are coming from. Could definitely throw him off if he doesn't RP.

I don't think it is wrong wanting to RP, but you need to understand that you will need to inform him and ask your friend whether or not they would be interested to RP with you. They might want to. If they decide to do it, you both will do fine. He will know when you are playing and you are not since he will be doing the same. He might decide to behave differently. The only problem is if they say they don't RP and are not interested.

I am trying to wrap my head on that concept of having your character the first rejection without even your friend knowing. I think that would be true if you ask your friend as your persona. If you ask as yourself then there can't be rejection since you are the actor. I don't think you need ask indirectly. Just ask your friend about RP and that you are a roleplayer.

[JumperX]

Ya I get what your saying. I was just being silly about the rejection. Like if I indirectly ask him about RP and he isn't into it then Amaethal can't pursue him like that anymore *sad face* rejection. Like by him saying he isn't into RP means we don't RP with each other which no biggie not everyone's into it. In character that means Amaethal cant pursue him because he doesn't RP, but in reality he never knew that's what Amaethal wanted because I didn't bring it up to him by indirectly asking. Aka Amaethal gets rejected without him even knowing it.

Yeah that makes more sense when I am able to recognize the actor and the character so much easier with movies since I know they are those characters in the movies.

[amorales559]

Hey guys, I'm Hyro, Or Alex ^^

Server: Sargatanas
Transfer? Would consider.
Interests: FC events, leveling, duty finder. Love POTD
Play schedule: Work from home, so it varies. PST.
What kind of gamer are you: Casual. Would like to try raiding soon.
Gender: Male in game and RL. Looking for male partner,
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Would prefer males but whatever makes ya happy.
Race: Lalafell.
Preferred Race: Any really.
Main: Healer. But trying out other roles.
Dislikes: People who take the game too seriously.
Goals: End game. Get all if not most characters to 60. Have fun. Enjoy people.
Goals: To meet someone to have fun with. Enjoy each others company online. Forge a lasting friendship. ^^

If you'd like to talk, Discord Alex(Hyro)#3213 @ if your curious, this is me IRL @am0rales on instagram.

[TenShingai]

Server: Balmung
Willing to transfer? No...Maybe
Personal Interests: The obvious, 70-80's movies, animation, music,
Play schedule: Variously from the afternoon to early mornings, that don't have work lurking.
What kind of gamer are you: Casual enough to feel hardcore
Character Gender: Male
Do you care if the player in real life is not the same gender as their character? Nope not really. Maybe the toon though.
Character Race: Elezen
Preferred Race: Lala, but no worries...
Main class?: War/Mch
Dislikes: negativity, unnecessary arguing, onions
Goals for the game: At some point lvl all classes to max, make bank, try some RP fun
Goals for the marriage union: Just need a partner in crime. I lack direction sometimes, and I know there is a whole lot more to do then just level. Plus I feel like I'm a terrible tank cause I've been out of the game for a bit, and it's always easier to have a friend at your side for no worries fun.
Etc: Updated stuff...im currently working on an RP character. Incase that has any relevance to anyone. Ive been just leveling and crafting gil lately, so im trying to extend the fun. Im a laid back person, not expecting more then a friend. I do get rowdy, sometimes lose control. But im not saying I wouldnt not go swimming at 3am. Just saying. Also someone who wouldnt mind a partner in crime to go through older, and new content. Maybe get raid ready.

Discord info Ten Shingai#0935

Laying out hope for the new year.